Is it really that easy to get over a relatonship that lasted for 3 months?

[Anonymous]

Everyone makes it sound so easy. You broke up, so what, it was only a three-month thing anyway. And I just don’t get it. Does it make me dumb that I’ve been heartbroken as fuck for the past 45 days because my relationship that lasted for three months ended? It was my first actual relationship that I actually considered as a “relationship” and he meant so much to me. Now I’m broken and I don't know if it will ever get better. Like I know it will, but I don’t think I’ll ever be able to fully get over him. But everyone makes it sound so easy that I bet he moved on already. Have you guys ever had a short relationship that had this impact on you or is there something wrong with my brain

[Anonymous]

Everyone’s different, your feelings are valid, just bc it was a short relationship doesn’t mean that it wasn’t real. I also had a summer fling with a guy for 3 months and it took me a really long time to get over with.

[LazerBean]

It should be. It sounds like you got emotionally invested too fast.

[Guy13]

No, it does not. It says that you seem to love hard... Go all-in with sincerity. I think it is admirable and truthfully hot. I hope things work out for you soon.

[Asker]

Thank you sm I really hope it does. Even though the only way of it getting better seems like us getting back together but whatever

[Guy13]

Yep... relationships are messy but hopefully.-This could be it. try not to worry about it too much and enjoy life... add some postings... and gently communicate you already have a life... and he blew it by not joining you in it...

[Britchie]

No the first one is always the hardest. Especially if you had sex. It will take a few months to get over it, and maybe years to fully process it and move on.

[Asker]

I’ve been with other people before but I never considered them as relationships. Ye we did have sex and I guess I fell in love with him after that. We had so much emotional and physical bond in such short time.

[Anonymous]

Why’d you break up with him?