I think the affair is still happening?

[Anonymous]

Caught my husband having an affair. We have been trying to work through things. I know he had been looking her up on LinkedIn even tho she hadn’t been posting (I’ve looked). He hasn’t looked her up recently so I thought maybe it really was over? Then I discovered he’s kept her number. Should I take him looking at her LinkedIn less as a sign it’s done? But him keeping her number is still keeping a part of her? Any advice would be appreciated (Also I am a woman and I’m 22), not sure why my profile says I’m male!

[litty]

Keeping someone’s phone number isn’t a sign of cheating, but not cutting contact with her is not good either. He should be doing everything he can to make sure you are loved and can trust him. Otherwise, what was the point of your vows?

[Asker]

Hey thanks for responding. The fact he has it speaks volumes doesn’t it, whether they are currently speaking or not? What do you think about the LinkedIn situation? I thought because he had stopped searching for her, maybe he was over her. But I had a look at her profile and she hasn’t posted so maybe that’s why he’s stopped looking? I feel like him having her number is him keeping part of her?

[litty]

It leaves the possibility of contacting her again. It's weird he would stalk her on LinkedIn. Why he would even look her up means he's thinking about her. Does he have her on other social media like facebook, IG, or snapchat?

[ZS007]

if they did it once they are gonna do it again. You deserve better.

[Guy13]

Are you a girl or a guy ⁉️

[Anonymous]

Dump that chump.