What to do if husband left me and came back and then left again a week later?

[Anonymous]

Husband said he wasn’t happy with me and didn’t love me and anymore and then packed his things and left: we’ve been together for 10 years and have a 1 year old son. Then 2 days later he came back and said sorry and that he loved me and wanted to make it work 5 days later and everything felt normal again- he started a random fight and started calling me a whole saying I fucked 1000 guys before we got married which I didn’t, he said he didn’t want to be with me packed his things again and left. I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do

[WonderBell99]

Was your marriage rocky before he said he fell out of love with you? If this was sudden, there might be something that is bothering him. However, what is absolutely appalling to me is, instead of having a chat with you like a mature adult he chose the immature way, throwing tantrums and all.

I have a question for you, has your husband always been a bad communicator even before this incident? It would help you a lot to find out what has been bothering him and talk to him about it. Give him some space. Contact him a week or two later and ask him to meet in a PUBLIC place. Strong emphasis on “public”. I would strongly advice you to meet him only at a public place with lots of people. Just to be on the safer side.

If this does not work, you can always try marriage counseling. If that does not work either, it is best to get a divorce. Your son needs a healthy environment to grow up in. If both of you constantly keep fighting, it will affect his childhood tremendously.

[Changiis07]

Maybe go to counseling, seek help. Maybe there's things that are bothering him that he needs to speak about that he hasn't found a way to do it. Maybe it's just not getting through to the both. I also say pray about it. Let the Lord guide you in this

[Gent207-2]

Please save yourself and divorce this pathetic mass assshole of a human. He's not worth your tears!