What do I do if my husband packed and left?

[Anonymous]

Husband asked for a divorce and said he wa unhappy. Told me he didn’t love me anymore and doesn’t remember the last time he did and that our marriage should’ve ended a long time ago because he “doesn’t like me”. He packed and went to his parents house. I’m heartbroken. We have a 1 year. Old and I’m so hurt and I don't know what to do or if I can get him change his

mind :(

[Anonymous]

HE USED YOU AND FLUSHED YOU.

Kick him out, tell him to die and get a good lawyer to screw him over. Win child support and don't allow him to EVER look at your kid!

He basically betrayed you. Why the fuck did he married you if he confessed that he didn't loved you that he can't remember?

Were you blind to the red flags in the beginning?

Have you noticed him being neglectful, flaky and emotionally distant or even dishonest while being in a relationship? If yes then YOU should have left him. There are always red flags

[Youryeodongsaeng]

You can't change his mind and don't try to. Just get the divorce. Once that is settled, he will still be able to see his kid and help take care of them.
You can talk it out before doing all of this through. If that doesn't seem to reach your expectations, then get a divorce. Let the unhappy man go. It is not healthy to keep him when he isn't happy with you anymore.

[wheist9095]

If he doesn't love you there's nothing you can do to make him love you, what you have to do is find a good divorce/Family lawyer and prepare to be single again. Custody agreements, child support depending on who has the better job, be civil don't be hateful and mourn the loss of the relationship but start preparing yourself to move on and put yourself back out there in the world

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Space is a wonderful thing & right now maybe a little space is what he needs & space is what you should give him & down the road if he truly wants a divorce grant it. On the flip side it truly saddens me to hear about your husband & how he packed up & left & as for you life moves on & so should you.

[loveslongnails]

First of all, you CAN'T get him to change his mind. After statements like that, he's gone. Even if you could, would you trust it? I doubt it. Right now, it hurts your heart, but in a while you'll be asking "fuck, why didn't you tell me this years ago so I wouldn't have wasted time with you?"

Get yourself a lawyer, stop crying and while you're waiting for your lawyer's recommendations, tell him you expect to see money for house and kids as usual.

[Guy13]

It sounds like you need to change your thinking. There is child support and other associated divorce items. That paperwork can be up to two years without child support. Get your head in straight and out the clouds ‼️

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm sorry about this I hope he has a change of heart. I think you two should sit down and talk with a marriage counselor about things. ((( Hugs )))

[TheFlak38]

if you knew how to suck dick and not be such a boring turn off he would be sticking to you like glue.

[Danny_dan92]

Respect his decision. Better he do that than cheat on you, that’s worse. He’s being honest

[Anonymous]

there really is nothing you can do... i'm sorry

[Anonymous]

Just let him go. You’ll find a new guy.

[SolitarySolace]

Good for him