my husband and i have been bad for sometime, emotional abuse I'm on antidepressants he has chronic reoccurring depression. we lost a baby last June had an abortion because "we weren't working out" 😭Everything i do is wrong it's like a highlight on my imperfections. he started talking down to me saying play my role, i refused. Thursday i told him he to change or this is done. He knew i was serious and made me believe he was understanding. The same day I missed karate i got there 5 mins late and they didn't accept our son. I apologized profusely to both our son and him. He knew i felt bad so he refrained from shitting on me. he felt the need to bring it up again on Saturday while we were eating out. Mind you he came home at 4am Friday night and i decided to let that go. i snapped and told him i told you it was a mistake and here you are again making me feel bad. At about 7pm we decide we are watching a movie, i make pizza, wings, fries. He ate about 8 wings some fries and two slices, his friend comes over he goes to the basement. I put our son to bed end up watching the movie alone, then cleaning up. i threw away three wings, and the rest of the fries. when his friend leaves he comes upstairs saying he's hungry and why did i throw the food away i said it's like 11pm i cleaned and their were only 3 wings left. he said i got an attitude which i totally did so he packed some stuff and left and didn't come back. I called him 7 times this morning and facetimed twice he didn't pick up so i got so mad told him i wanted a divorce and he can get the rest of his stuff Monday on his day off and my work day, I blocked him. Question- Should i let him go and leave him alone? and don't allow him back in the house? we have never been separate before, but i feel unvalued, and i think he just doesn't care or Is this my fault for being a nag? why would anyone want to be around that? please help
My husband didn't come home last night, we have been fighting non stop and last night he packed a few articles of clothing and left?
