What’s going on?

[Anonymous]

i had a boyfriend of 1.5 years and we were so in love but we then had to go long distance for school. He was still so communicative and so attached but turns out he was cheating on me the entire time with multiple women over Reddit and in his little rural town. I broke up with him when I found out about one of the girls and blocked him. Turns out, later on he’s dating this last girl. And she knows she was the homewrecker and that she wasn’t the first girl. Please explain what is going on. How are they possibly dating? Who in their right mind would think that’s healthy?

[WonderBell99]

Just because he was communicative does not always guarantee that he wouldn’t cheat on you. If he was very much in love with you as you claim he was, he would not have cheated on you. Long distance rarely ever works, and it would only work if the two people are decent enough to not cheat on their SO’s with someone else.

A faithful man will say no to any woman who comes into him, the same goes for women. He was not faithful. Does not matter how much he loved you, he was not loyal. Period. That should be enough for you to end this relationship. I know how cheaters work, they will never change. If my guess is right, he would probably cheat on the other/next girl as well.

You should stop focusing on a relationship that has no connection to you whatsoever. What you and him had is long gone. Dead and buried. You have to divert your energy and time to school, career and other people who are important to you. If you keep mulling over this, I promise, it is going to be very very hard for you to move on. If you do not even make an effort to move on, it’s going to be a tough road with lot of thorns. Turn to friends and family for emotional support, socialize with other people, focus on YOURSELF first and make sure you heal completely before you start dating someone new.

[WonderBell99]

comes onto him*

[kylee2437]

Who knows and who cares. You should be worried about your own self and not care about how their relationship is going. Work on yourself , focus on school. Life continues on even if a relationship ends

[Danny_dan92]

Long distance hardly ever works.


Best to forgive, not forget and move on