What’s going on?

[Bunnyloppy123]

There’s a guy i met in college, Jack. We’ve only been friends for a few months. I’ve suspected him liking me for a week or so. He would flirt, tease, try make me jealous. And offered to take me out and pay. And offered to go somewhere a few hours away from us and stay overnight.

I’ve come to realize he’s emotionally attached to me. Like the other day he said ‘you’re like a home now’ and ‘wherever I go, I’ll always come back to you’

And yesterday a guy friend took my phone nd messaged him. Saying I’m interested in her. Who r u to her. I apologized later on saying it was my friend. Then he just said alright. I tried to start a convo but he was rlly dry and seemed distant/upset.

I don't know if he likes me, my friends have been saying that. So what shall I do. If I act normal with him, he’ll probably get even more attached. I don’t think he’ll detach from me unless I acc tell him how I feel.

[HollyK21]

Don’t take this the wrong way but at this point the only person you should be asking about how they feel is the man himself. You’re involving too many outside voices and because of that your friend has potentially ruined a love match for you.


Allowing your friends to snatch your phone and take the reigns just for you to get simple answers that you’re too afraid to ask for yourself is something you should really stop. Honestly it makes a big fat mess and nobody wants to date you and your friends as a packaged deal because you not only tell them everything but allow them to act on your behalf. Adults don’t do that.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Doesn’t really matter how he feels. Do you want to fuck him or not?