My ex went back to his ex?

[Anonymous]

It’s only been a week since we broke up and he went straight to following his ex. I wanted closure and told him how I felt and he said she followed him the day we broke up coincidently.. I was heartbroken because he had told me while we were together he didn’t think of her or have any contact of her but the fact as soon as we break up he finds her again. He didn’t even care for hurting me he just blocked me after. How could he just throw everything away we had? I did everything for him and he picked his ex over us when he has never even met his ex he met her online a game before we dated in like 2015.

[melnc]

You broke up because of his self centered behavior. Don’t blame yourself at this point. Instead, remind yourself that your ex wasn’t good for you in the first place. Do whatever it takes to focus on yourself again and surround yourself with people that love you genuinely. Be grateful that you got yourself out of the toxic environment.

[Missgingles]

He sounds like a narcisstist. Then he wanted you to react like this. Your best revenge is to move on and find someone else. Thats his worst fear cause he wants you around his pinky finger so he can come back and check on you in 6 month-1 year from now so he knows if he has you has a second option.

As soon as you focus on yourself he is gonna come running towards you

[Asker]

I know it just hurts so much. I loved him and did everything for him. I supported this man when he was dead broke and was by his side. He had the audacity to call me “kiddo” when I was pouring my heart out and why her and why he was so quick to find her when he left me. :(

[Asker]

I don’t know how he could leave me a physical person over a girl on the damn internet. He had told me way before he never met her and I know she’s real because I’ve seen pics and stuff of her while we were together on his computer from way back and he was like “I’m over her I promise” after I cried.

[Missgingles]

Well he is an immature dude. Look men are natrual born hunters. If he sees that you have moved on he is gonna come back. Esspecially these types of men. I have the same issue with a dude online. As soon as I dont text him at all on his birthday etc he comes running back.

Know your worth. Focus on yourself and healing and you will find someone better. You deserve to be happy. But I know its hurts and its okay.