Is it weird to send your ex a song?

[Anonymous]

me and my ex have been broken up for a month.. and I found a song that is exactly me and him. and of why we broke up... but that I still want him back in my life.

would it be creepy to send it to him? guys: what would you think if your ex girlfriend sent you a song? (might I add, I'm the one that broke it off with him so I could see if he broke it off with me, he wouldn't want me sending him songs).

[Anonymous]

if you dumped him and want him back, then you're probably going to be the one who has to make the first move. he might be over you - he may have moved on - and he may not respond the way you want, if at all. I think the better thing to do is to TELL HIM YOU WANT HIM BACK. if he doesn't respond to that then he isn't interested.

text "hi, how are you" or something at first, instead of sending him a song who's meaning and relevance to your prior relationship he has to infer. if he doesn't engage in casual texting with you, then swallow your pride and say you messed up.

[girl_power111]

i don't think so. I think you shud try to talk to him first ratther than sending a song out of the blue. if you both start having a nice convo then you give him some hints of you being interested in getting back like "i missed you a lot"..."we had such a nice time together I miss it". if he responds well then call him again after a few days. and then ask him wht he feels about you two...a nd in this process of winning him back you can mail him this song...

[Anonymous]

...i wouldn't do it. I can't explain it, but I have a bad feeling about this idea

[arubian06]

no it is not, I sent a few poems to my ex, and she was the one who broke up with me. you got nothing to lose by telling him in an indirect way how you feel about the break up. if you were the one who initiated the break up you should send him the song. if it was him, then I would suggest talking to him normally first, if he is responsive in a good way, then you can send him the song. but that is just elaborating a bit, just send the bloody thing and see what happens. best of luck to you.

[sixstring]

I'm really having a hard time processing that last bit. To me it says you broke up with him because you wanted to know if he'd mind if you sent a song if hé broke up with you.

Anyway, it all depends on how he handled the break-up. If he was heartbroken, he'll propably not want to recieve it cause it'll hurt him only more. If it was a clean break-up, I guess he wouldn't mind.

[sumina7]

Don't send it, unless you guys have been talking about getting back together already.

[Habakkuk]

i'd be fine with it if I didn't have any hard feelings about you breaking it off

[Anonymous]

I would burst into tears if my ex sent me a song... We have been broken up about the same amount of time, she left me as well. I miss her so much.

[Deft_maiden]

Let by Gones be by gones.