How is a person supposed 2 deal w/ After 15yrs in a association/relationship w/ kids finds out 9+yrs of cheating&gaslighting be accepting and let go?

[putAsmile0nURlips]

Like it says up there, but was told the if this was to work I'd have to let go of the past and forget about it if i wanted anything with her...

[NotTacocaT6969]

Ok, so the reason this question is not being answered is that the English is pretty off…which is either because English is not your first language or because you’re upset.


Can you please simplify the question?


Are you asking how to move on from 15 years of lies and start over?


Or are you asking if you should forgive her?

[Guy13]

Damn, that's brutal shit... sorry dude.