Can you tolerate cheating in a relationship?

[Christsdisciple15]

Even if it’s just once? I haven’t dated yet but I feel quite strongly that I would not. I can’t stand cheaters, and I would end the relationship expeditiously. That’s not to say I won’t forgive them, but I can no longer be with them.

[Drooogie4]

No.

I've been cheated on more than once and never forgave it. It's an automatic deal breaker. And as sad as that is in the moment, it's SO much better than allowing that disrespect to eat as you long term.

Because at the end of the day, they chose to cheat on you.

There's some things you can get past, but for me that is very much not one of them.

[degenerate_daisy]

Absolutely not. Once trust is broken, it'll never come back. Also, once a cheater, always a cheater. I could write a novel on why not. That is my number one deal breaker. Trust and honesty are 2 of my non-negotiables in a relationship. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything

[KrakenAttackin]

It seems the modern dating rules imply it's only cheating if you have confirmed monogamy. For this reason most women are grudgingly willing to share a Chad Thundercock than have a regular man to themselves. This is what women call a "friends with benefits" or list their relationship status as "it's complicated".

[Christsdisciple15]

Yeah those aren’t really relationships then I guess

[KrakenAttackin]

The woman wants the Chad to commit, but he has no reason to do so.

[Billlewis]

Absolutely, because I always encourage the woman I'm serving to feel comfortable dating other guys.

[billmunch]

Actually, cheating for me isn't a deal breaker. It's actually something I can forgive quite easily. I don't know why, but it's generally okay with me.

[Oldschool1981]

Yes, I think a little cheatong from time to time is fair in a relationship.

[Hanrej]

Yes, I've no problem with a promiscuous girlfriend.

[jahaims]

No, I have self respect

[Zoi86]

No I seen what can happen.

[HelpfulWoman]

Just no.

[Agape93]

Nope.

[TallAnon]

Nope