Every relationship in your life is for a reason and a season?

[Alwayreckles93]

As some of you know my story a year ago my ex-husband left me. He grab his lounge looks at me didn't say not a word to me and walked away and shut the door behind him. At that time yes I was heart broken because I did loved that person. I felt resentment, hate especially for younger woman. I remember pray to God to save my marriage I try nonstop for him. Now I finally I was able to over come those feelings. I feel happy then I ever was for the past years I was with my ex-husband. Now this statement has been so clear to me Every relationship in your life is for a reason and a season. I had also lost friendship's and made new ones. Have you ever experienced to realize this term? Every relationship is for a reason and a season?https://youtu.be/1xipUk6Su0w

[OlderAndWiser]

If you stop to think back on what happened and even WHY it happened, then every relationship has the potential to teach you more about yourself, about relationships, and to help you become a better person.

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes Sir, I have learn good things about myself that I didn't even realize. I am a very strong religious person.

[LazerBean]

That is absolutely not true. Most of our relationships that are negative are a result of poor choices and judgement.

[Alwayreckles93]

Are you an active Christian?

[LazerBean]

Yes I am, and to say that God intentionally puts you into every bad relationship you've every been in is extremely unbiblical.

[LazerBean]

You are literally blaming your bad choices and other people's bad choices on God by doing that

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't blame God.

[LazerBean]

So what force causes all relationships to happen for a reason?

[Ilovethesunshine]

LazerBean Look I know it's none of my business but are you Mormon?
Why did you get married super young?
I mean normally people get married at age?

[Ilovethesunshine]

Alwayreckles Ignore this child she is super lost!
I bet just within in a year she will be divorce. Her brain isn't fully developed so don't waste you're time on taking this child's advice!

[Alwayreckles93]

@Ilovethesunshine Please let's try to be more respectful. She only trying to help and make me think.

[Alwayreckles93]

LazerBean In my opinion sometimes love makes people do crazy things or we fall so deeply in love with that person that we do see the red flags on people and we choose to ignore them so yes you do have a good point.

[Ilovethesunshine]

Oh PLEASE she's A FUCKING CHILD TECHNICALLY A TEENAGER!

[LazerBean]

@Ilovethesunshine I'm not a Mormon, I got married because I found the right person. Normally people get married older because they whore around first. You are a 30 year old women who self admittedly has been in many failed relationships and hasn't yet figured out men, so you should probably focus on finishing the development of your own brain. If I'm just a teenager, then my ongoing and successful long-term relationship just amplifies the shamefulness of your long road of failures.

@Alwayreckles93 I definitely agree that things like that are often the reason we get into bad relationships.

[Ilovethesunshine]

LazerBean Okay I see you are at a age you think you know everything.

You have not even finished college.
Age 30 is a right age for marriage, Not when you're fucking 22.
You ruined you're life! What idiot gets married at 22? No income does you're parents pay for you and you're husbands ass? You don't even have credit!
You will end up divorce! Big mistake to get married at you're age.
Ask anyone they all will tell you 22 is way too young for marriage.
Times had changed don't you want to go to college earn a degree.
No you think life is easy that you know everything in life. Life is going to give you a slap in the face once you're divorce!
I hope. you don't get pregnant soon. Only 30 year olds should be having babies not woman at you're age!

[LazerBean]

I graduated college at 19.
My husband bought a house in a nice neighbor and 2 vehicles at 18.
He alone makes above the median HOUSEHOLD income for our state. I don't even have to work. But if I did, the pay of an entry level job (which is always short-handed and hiring) for someone with my degree would nearly double our household income.
We have near perfect credit score.
We have been married for 3 years, not including the time we dated and were friends even before that.

You should really stop while you're ahead, because your desperate attempts to tell me what's wrong with us is just highlighting your own insecurities and shortcomings, and also that your assumptions are just generally incorrect.

[Alwayreckles93]

LazerBean Ignore her she is jealous of you that's why she's trash talking. When people talk crap it means they are hateful and jealous. I wish more girls your age had your mindset. You seem like an old soul. If you want to have kids that is a personal choice for you and your spouse ignore what people say you do what's best for you and your family. I wish I had my kids in my early 20's I had more energy now I get tired so easily and babies cry's I just can't stand. Personally I think it doesn't matter if people have kids in their 20's if they are married and make a good income you will be an excellent parent.

[LazerBean]

Thank you. We plan on waiting a couple more years so we can travel some more, but my friend had a baby at 21 that we babysit often and it's very fun. It's something we definitely look forward to.

[Alwayreckles93]

That's what you decided I say go for it. It doesn't matter what age you are I bet you will be a great future mom!👍 I hope cute I am sure that little baby loves you dearly.

[LazerBean]

Thank you 😊

[Ilovethesunshine]

LazerBean THE BITCH IN YOU'RE PROFILE PICTURE LOOKS 15!
BITCH STOP LYING!
YOU JUST WANT TO BRAG WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE.
BITCH YOU WANNA ME BELIEVE YOU HAVE A BACHELORS DEGREE AT AGE 19 ?
BITCH PLEASE
YOU AND THE OTHER BITCH ARE Delusional!

[LazerBean]

Just because you aged badly doesn't mean everyone does. Damn, so triggered that a "teen" is doing infinitly better at life then you lmao

[Ilovethesunshine]

LazerBean You are stuck living in cavemen area!
We are not in the 1950's when 20 year old woman marry was the norm!

You and asker believe on something you can't see!
Why Cristian merry so young?

[LazerBean]

Geez what a child. That bad attitude and lack of any coherent thought is exactly why no decent guy has ever given you a chance.

[Alwayreckles93]

@Ilovethesunshine Okay I had it , I am blocking you I will not tolerate disrespect. Bye!

[Alwayreckles93]

LazerBean I just block her. I would recommend you block her too. It looks like she's on a spectrum.

[LazerBean]

She certainly must be. Good thinking