Break Up & Divorce

Can I get him back if he’s not in love anymore?

My ex and I have played cat and mouse since we broke up in 2020. Never on the same page. Never wanted the same thing at the same time. I’d be moving on while he’d be ignoring me then he’d get offended and angry I moved on. We’d be working it out and I’d find out he was talking to other women. Just a mess. But we’ve always shown up for important things such as birthdays, Thanksgiving, Valentine’s Day, my law school graduation. Even as I type this, he’s in Atlanta moving me out of my old apartment (I hastily moved back home to LA before my lease was up). When I went to Atlanta earlier this month to get my clothes and stuff, while he was helping me pack and disassemble furniture, he told me was wasn’t in love with me anymore. I cried but he maintained his position. I’ve been back in LA 3 weeks and he’s been moving furniture out of my apartment, covering holes in walls, and mailing me things I’ve left behind. At the same time, he says he’s done. I asked if I could stay with him for a while if I find out I pass the GA bar and get a job in Atlanta and he said “probably not.” Which hurt me because I let him stay with me for months during the pandemic. Of course, the difference is we aren’t together anymore but it still hurt. Does it seem like there’s any hope or should I just move on?

Can I get him back if he’s not in love anymore?
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