I want him back but he in a relationship already?

[Anonymous]

I’m still inlove with my ex but I doubt if he feels the same way I recently added him on Snapchat and we talked since yesterday not much but hey anywho I told him I missed him he didn’t reply I asked him today if he was seeing anyone he said right now tbh yes I am and I responded with ok so I’m gonna just let it go

[Oliverlogan263]

I know it's hard to move on from someone you still care about, trust me I've been there. But it sounds like this guy is in a new relationship now so trying to get back together might not be the best idea. A few things that might help:

- Give yourself some time and space. Cutting off contact will help your feelings fade over time so you're not constantly reminded of him. As hard as that is now.

- Keep yourself busy with other people too like friends, hobbies, etc. Helps distract from thinking about him so much.

- Letting go doesn't mean you never cared, it just means accepting it's over. You'll always have the good memories of your time together.

- Maybe not totally close that door forever, but focus on moving on for now. You never know what might happen down the road if you both end up single again one day. But don't wait around either.

Chin up, there will be other guys who will treat you right and be lucky to have you once you're fully over this guy. It's his loss now. You've got this! Time is your friend, just hang in there.

[strateguy632]

going to next partner helps detach from previous.

[Asker]

What do you mean by that?

[laly520]

he is an ex now n has girlfriend
move on

[CozyCoffin]

Then let it go.

[HouseMoat]

Exs are for desp. people