Ex keeps telling me I’m so negative?

[Anonymous]

Me and my ex are broke up a year he was really so horrible to me during that year.
Every time we meet up I’m always crying or expressing my hurt to him and wishing he change or at least knowledge his faults.
But he says he has and that he can’t change the past but I tell him he can change the present but he doesn’t see how he’s doing anything wrong.
He tells me I should be more positive and not give out but I have all this pain and anger and even the way he speaks to me now he’s just such a horrible man.
I’m just so miserable and unhappy each time I’m with him and he wants me to pretend I’m fine and happy and it’s just so hard to do.
Like I don’t know why he keeps agreeing to meet up when he clearly doesn’t like me

[kylee2437]

If he doesn’t make you happy, why even bother? Your chance to get away from your unhappiness with him was when you two broke up. What are you trying to force? You can’t accept what happened in the past but you still want him around to soak up your anger towards him. Don’t you think that’s a little selfish? When you take someone back in your life, you don’t forget what they did, but you forgive and move forward. If you can’t accept what was done in the past, it’s controlling and pathetic to make someone sit through your anger and sadness towards them because you don’t have the self worth to let go of them. Tighten up.

[Asker]

He doesn’t want to come back as he won’t even tell his family about me until he solid with a person it’s been a year of this

[kylee2437]

So you keep complaining of why he’s a bad person, but you still want him. Girl make it make sense lol there’s plenty of other guys out there that will give you what you are looking for

[Anonymous]

You sound like you have way too many issues. Why are you still meeting up w him? It sounds as though you need drama in your life to fulfill this sort of feeling you need, chaotic. I knew plenty of women like that, finally parted ways. If you’re so miserable and unhappy every time you’re w him than maybe you should stop seeing him. I’m no Einstein but that would make sense.

[Asker]

I know I could be happy if he changed and treated me right like commit to me instead or using me

[melnc]

He plays with your mind. Stop the drama and live your life.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Danny_dan92]

Bigger question is why tf you still communicating with your ex when you broke up a year ago?

[Asker]

Because I want to make things work

[Danny_dan92]

Well clearly they aren’t. And clearly you need help, cause in the question you literally said everytime you’re with him you feel horrible or whatever.

So again, why tf you communicate with him is beyond me.

Your pussy is attached to the cock.

Go find another, he isn’t the only man on the planet. For fucks sake. Have some self awareness and self worth

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[Danny_dan92]

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