He left and now wants to bully me into seeing our son?

[Anonymous]

Okay hear me out my husband left and now wants to bully me into seeing our son talking down to me disrespecting me etc. I am asking him what he wants to do when does he want him he won't give me any answers he just wants his son. I am a firm believer in you should respect the mother of your child am i wrong for being hesitant? He literally left on Sunday

[Avicenna]

Has left permanently, as in separation? Do you have any real concerns about him taking your son?

You probably should talk to a family law attorney about this since you presumably have joint custody.

[SnowedIn]

So, no one should bully or disrespect another person. BUT... be very careful about not letting him see your son. That can make things much worse and there's a whole host of legal issues involved. If you plan to stay separated from him, you really need a lawyer to help you navigate custody discussions.

[Guy13]

Not good. Sorry to hear this. What’s your decision ⁉️

[Guy13]

Is he in effect holding the child hostage from you... demanding something for you to see your child? I am having a tough time with this one?

[boggboss]

Either set up some type of visitation between the two of you or do it through the courts