I reached out to my exs mother?

[Anonymous]

So my ex broke up with me a year ago. Made it very clear it was over but through out the year he was up and down wanting me to sleep with him and contacting me at random really messing with my head.
I’ve suffered a year with this abuse from him making a fool out of me being so cruel and I reached out to his mother to let her know what her son was doing to me so maybe she could talk to him to get him to stop.

It did absolutely nothing he stopped for awhile and then started abusing me again.
I stuck it for months and then u reached out a second time to his mother with screenshots of emails from him even with the filth he was saying to me I didn’t care I just want him to leave me alone. She yet again ignored me like is this ever going to stop and why can no one see what this man is doing to me? I’ve cried to his step brother before and it’s like no one cares and thinks I’m nuts.

[Sparkie460]

Copy all the messages from him. Take them to the police and press charges against him. Have him arrested and thrown in jail. His family won't help you so you have to protect yourself from him. Get a restraining order against him where he can't be within 100 feet from you, he can't message you , send you letters or packages or call you.

[Asker]

But if it was my family they would help another person I just don’t get why I’m constantly ignored like does no one on his side care ? And approve of this behaviour

[Sparkie460]

Obviously his family has no respect and they don't care

[Sparkie460]

Now you know why he is the way he is

[Asker]

Maybe so.. I’m just so shocked like even with screenshots I thought his ma would finally see what he’s like like I have proof as before it was all just words which I thought he could lie his way out of but no response it’s just like I’ve to accept the bullying and left feeling it’s my fault and I’m crazy for reaching out

[Sparkie460]

You shouldn't have to accept the bullying. Take the texts to the police

[Asker]

Maybe I will if he contacts me again because I’ve reached to the mother and the step brother and I’ve got nothing only ignored so I might have too if he doesn’t stop now I’m hoping maybe she did say it to him because last time I reached out to her he told me she rang him and asked him about it and he just told her to ignore it so I don't know

[Sparkie460]

She might tell him you talked to her. It might make him angry

[Asker]

Well last time I thought it would make him angry and it didn’t he didn’t text me for a week or so and then went back at me again so I’m hoping this time with the proof sent maybe she will tell him to stop as there was some sick things init that you don’t want your own mother seeing but I had to show her as I’m sick of him getting away with it

[Sparkie460]

I guess you'll have to see what happens. Do you have mace or pepper spray

[Asker]

No I don’t have them lol

[Sparkie460]

I highly recommend you get either one for your safety. I tell all women to carry it with them because you never know. You just spray it in their eyes and they can't see because it burns

[Asker]

Lol love that deffo buy it so

[Anonymous]

I don’t get why you’re doing all this and involving his mom tol. Just block him? Block him everywhere and don’t talk to him ever again. If he makes new accounts just block them too. Get a restraining order if it goes as far as you needing that, but it doesn’t sound like it. It sounds like you’re entertaining this, just stop. No reaction what so ever. Don’t even read his messages, just block right away.

[Asker]

I involved his mother as because i don’t want to be two years having him constantly at me abusing me in whatever way he can and how do u block someone in real life? Explain that I know his family dislike me and I want her to see what her precious son is like because they think he’s an angel and I’m the abuser

[Guy13]

Police.

[Asker]

But can his own mother not get him to stop like if it was my mother she would kill me for not leaving someone alone like that

[Guy13]

No. Police.