Drunk texted my ex, what do I do now?

[Anonymous]

Drunk texted my ex last night I did what any dumb person does when they're drunk and texted my ex. It felt good for my drunk self to just angry rant/hate on him throughout the conversation when he was being perfectly nice. And now sober me has to deal with the repurcussions and I feel like absolute crap. I apologised to him but I'm pretty sure i hurt him or at the least annoyed him. I feel like crap for hurting him even though he's hurt me so many times. Why does it work out this way. I guess I'm asking for advice to move on from this because it feels like I've undone months of progress I've made in just one night.

[DaveJord]

Honestly I always trust my drunk self. Drinking or being drunk makes you less inhibited and to a degree more in tune with your subconscious self. You actually unlock that little voice in the back of your mind and actually listen to it.

Sober me repressed those feelings, because your conscious self shuts it out. Now your drunk/sub conscious self may not be right. But the important thing to remember is your drunk / subconscious self has one very important thing to play and you absolutely should not over look. That is, that your drunk / subconscious self is telling you that you seriously do have these repressed feelings, and that is real and true... and its very important that you acknowledge those feelings and listen to them. Becsuse thst probably honestly how you feel.

In the end drunk or sober you must acknowledge your repressed feeling and not apologize for having them. Actually I trust my drunk self in more times than not. Even though I am sorry for saying it out loud in he way I said it... I am not sorry for feeling the way I feel and I have right to feel that way. So either he deals with it and respects it or he doesn't. But don't blow it off as just being drunk. The fact is this man pissed you off deeply and no matter what progress you think has been made, he must not have acknowledge you and your feelings on a level you feel you require of him.

I wish I can tell in my experience how many times I didn't listen to my drunk self and it was good thing. Truth is my drunk self was always right and when I did listen to it... it turned out even worst after a lot more heartache and drama.

So if it was me, I'd apologize for the rant. He probably didn't deserve to hear it thst way and you probably didn't say it in best way possible. But in the end you do have these feelings and its probably best to take a break, becsuse obviously your not over some things and may never be.

[Asker]

I guess you're right. My drunk self is genuinely a true reflection of my thoughts. But i don't ever want to hurt him. I am angry at him so angry. But that's my emotions to deal with and taking it out on him doesn't make me feel better anyway. I did apologise for the things I said.
Thank you so much for your response it helped

[DaveJord]

Totally I sure whatever you said to was brutally honest and hurtful... drunk or not an apology is problem required.

But trust your drunk self, its telling you something so don't just ignore it or dismiss it. That's my advice.

[Noahzaid]

Why did you feel the need to hate in him though?

[Asker]

There was just so much anger towards him for consistently leaving me when it was convenient for him. He claims that that's not it but it feels exactly like he leaves when he's bored. He says he can't do relationships and that's fine but he should have realised that before he decided to date me again and make me fall in love with him all over again

[ConfusedGirl100]

Delete his number and don't get drunk again to the points it will make you text him again and in the meantime don't contact him

[Asker]

His number isn't saved I remember it unfortunately. But I'll avoid alcolhol for a while

[rachel776]

don't worry about it, we've all done it and survived

[Asker]

A landmark moment lmaoo

[sheikalana]

I never drunk texted anyone but anyways what is done is done and you can't go back in time. Just forget about it and carry on with your life.