It really depends on the relationship: what they meant to me, how they treated me, what led to the break up, etc.
I’ve been in a super toxic relationship before where after breaking up, I felt like a huge weight was lifted off of my shoulders. I felt relieved and free.
Then, I’ve also been in a relationship before with a girl that I was dating for almost 3 years and I wanted to marry her… But then I found out she cheated on me… That felt absolutely devastating.
The more you mean to a guy, the more a breakup will hurt them. The less you mean to a guy, the less a breakup will hurt them.
But guys also tend to be good at hiding their feelings, so they could be hurting really bad while putting up a front to look unaffected.
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Depends on the situation, but for the most part if you're in a relationship it's because you have feelings for the other person so ending things is generally painful. I've never ended a relationship and felt good about it, you may feel good about getting away from a toxic situation but it still usually feels bad.
Some just hop to the next woman. Others actually care and feel heartbroken.
Sad/heartbroken if that's not what they wanted.
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In my experience I felt amazing when I dumped her.
She’d abused me for over a year and I just couldn’t cope with her constant moods her constant name calling and violence so I left, I didn’t feel anything I suppose it’s because I hated her for all she put me through.Are you looking for 1000 answers based on different situations? That’s what your likely get.
Mostly this reassurance that I knew it was gonna happen, i deserve it and it's my fault to believing i was dateable.
Horrible but maybe happy.
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