My fiancé and I broke up after two years. It has been a really nasty break up. It’s only been a month and half since the break up. We’ve talked a few times but really it’s just been arguments. I recently moved back to my hometown and connected with another ex of mine (he and I were together for 6 years his name is Fred). Fred and I are friends we decided to hang out. When he poured out his heart to me saying I was the one who got away. How he searched for me in all the women he dated. I found this to be crazy because he did exactly what my fiancé did to me. But during our relationship he acted like he didn’t care about me. Or like I wasn’t worthy. He cheated on and put other people before me. 3 years later he’s saying I was the best woman he dated and how he has a void since I’ve been gone. How do men really process break ups because all my exes act like it’s nothing to find another woman. I’m wondering if my ex fiancé feels this way too.
side note my ex fiancé has a restraining order on me but calls me everyday. He’s violating his own restraining order