Is getting back together with an ex a good idea?

[Lucy68]

Even if they've cheated, have abused, or committed both, is it a good idea even though they claimed that they changed to try again in the relationship.

[Anonymous]

For a girl maybe. For a guy no. Whatever it is women are more willing to accept a man who cheated back, something about other women wanting him makes him more desirable, the opposite for men. Sure they are willing to have sex with an ex who cheated but if they are going to seriously committ to a woman they want loyalty. Must be a biological thing, a guy doesn't want to be raising a kid that's not his and if a woman's promiscuous it could be any guy's.

[Cubus]

No. It's a very had idea

[Cubus]

Thank you for most helpful

[melanieeeB]

Most of the time - nope, it's a super bad idea and a waste of time and people mostly don't change much but at the same time, I understand why some people go back and I understand why some might need that experience to learn and grow but it's definitely a bad idea

[Emilyis]

NEVER! THINK! Why did you break up with him to begin with?

[Makeushiver]

Rarely. Unless the couple feeos very much like they were better off together. Often the exact nsame issues pop up uwhwn the ciuple has gotten back together. They forget that the reason or not fighting was that they had no opportuniy

[SnowedIn]

Almost always no. People very rarely change and they're an ex for a reason.

[Jamie05rhs]

No. It's never a good idea.

[Mark987]

Majority of time like 90% no never. The make up sex is usually always AMAZING THOUGH

[AmeerX]

Sometimes it's a good idea. Do believe in second chances. But if he does a third time then screw it

[NathanDavis]

nope... BIG NOPE

[Alex8736]

history always repeats itself

[Andres77]

Not usually.

[EaterPeter]

Nope

[krin_m]

Not really.

[Anonymous]

People don’t change.