I realize that I like him more that I thought now that we fell apart?

[Anonymous]

So I was dating an old friend for 1 month, but The story is a bit longer than that… things comes up and I decided to end the story to not caused myself anxiety…

now that everything is done,, I realize I love him… is this feeling tru? Or im

just like that cause I feel empty for the moment…

it hurts so much, so much

[DaveJord]

I mean it could be a momentary thing based upon the circumstances and situation... or it could be more than that. Maybe you are in a better place now then you were then and maybe that is all you needed.

Only one way to find out, which is contact him and see if there is still a chance to work on things. I mean if you do not do that then you will always ask yourself what if you had tried harder or put out more effort.

In my experience relationships are hard and people at times get so caught up in their own lives and problems, when relationships hit those bumps in the road it's easier to quit sometimes then actually put out the effort to make it work. Given where you are in life, with all the daily challenges that can become a lot and be overwhelming. As you work through things you start to think maybe you should have or are willing now to try harder.

[Guy13]

Don’t you hate that…MAYBE, the New Year will bring you back together. Do you think you can ease back when in a “not so needy” way?