Does this mean my ex doesn’t want to get back together?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my ex because he didn’t answer my questions through text on the weekend so it was suspicious and I warned him to answer them. I broke up with him then I wanted him back. He said “u were cute but you left me for someone else and played me. We can have sex but can’t guarantee any feelings” when I saw him in person I said do you want to get back together and he said I need time to think, and I asked how long, he said 4 days. Do you think he intends on getting back with me

[Anonymous]

He's just after sex, so why bother unless you're ok with that.

[Asker]

He doesn’t want more?

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't seem so.

[Asker]

Was saying I played him and have someone else just an excuse?

[Asker]

Can I still get him back

[In_Trance]

you broke up for a reason

[Asker]

I didn’t want to break up just on the weekends he doesn’t answer my questions

[In_Trance]

You broke up

[Asker]

But I want him back

[In_Trance]

No you don't. You just said why it ended and you think you want that same thing again?
You want someone to fill the role; you don't want him.
Trouble is, rn there is nobody else.

[Asker]

I only want him

[In_Trance]

Then why did you break up? You had him and decided it wasn't what you wanted

[Asker]

Broke up cuz he didn’t respond on weekends I thought he was cheating

[In_Trance]

And you think if you get back together that's going to be any different?
You're delusional

[Asker]

But everything about him was perfect just that

[In_Trance]

You're fooling yourself. When you have perfection it's not something you walk away from.
But you walked away.

[Asker]

Can I still get him back

[slatyb]

Not if he's smart.

[Asker]

So I fucked up? I want him back

[slatyb]

"I broke up... because he didn’t answer my questions through text on the weekend"

You are way too controlling, and not ready for a relationship. Maybe see a counselor and work through this.

[Asker]

Yeah but I feel like it requires no effort to take a few seconds to text back especially day off

[Asker]

And weird thing is he says I’m not needy at all

[Asker]

Can I still get him back

[slatyb]

Seems unlikely. Maybe if you apologize. You know, there are other things to do on weekends besides responding to text messages. I ski. I don't respond to texts between 6AM and 8PM, and may not even check messages until Sunday evening. Unless we are dating exclusively, I communicate only enough to agree on the next meeting.

[Asker]

He says that I’m not clingy though

[Anonymous]

Correct, its time for you to move on.

[Asker]

I can’t he seemed so in love with me

[Asker]

Can I still get him back

[Opinion Owner]

You can always try.

[Asker]

He only text me when I text first

[Anonymous]

😂😂

[Asker]

Why ru laughing

[Asker]

Arrogant bitch

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂 thanks lol