Me and my ex broke up two weeks ago. We were living together we had a bad fight and he packed and left we had a few hard times in the relationship but nothing communication didn’t fix. The day before he left he was telling his bestfriend how much he loves me and how happy he is. He has stood his ground on not wanting to be back together and this not being what he wants anymore. Expect last week we had a two hour talk face to face ( one week post break up) it ended with him saying we will talk more tomorrow. He slept over hooked up next day said it didn’t change anything. He said it was wrong to do knowing how I feel. I him to get the last of his things never got them or sent someone. I reached out and asked if he wanted to grab his things and maybe have a drink he agreed. Does this mean anything?
1 mo
Does my ex want to get back together?
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Hmm that's a tricky situation. From what you wrote it seems like he's kinda all over the place about what he wants. I think the best thing to do is try not to read too much into any one thing he does. Breakups are always hard and confusing.
My advice would be just take things slow and don't get your hopes up too much. See how the drink goes and try to have an honest conversation where you both share your feelings without blaming or trying to force anything. Let him do most of the talking so you can understand where his head is at.
If he really still cares about you, maybe there's a chance to work things out. But don't pressure him or make any assumptions. Just listen without judgment and see where the conversation leads. Hopefully you'll both get some clarity. Try not to stress too much - these things have a way of working themselves out over time. Just focus on staying calm and communicating openly. Hope it goes well!
Sounds like he's having difficulty deciding
Whatever happened in that last difficulty mustve really made him mad
Could be having trouble moving on
Does that mean he wants to be with you. Not necessarily but if your goal is to get back with him
At the very least it's a good sign for you
Argument ** not difficulty
It was something that could have been handled better and communicated better instead of me blowing up making him blow up. But I’m not sure how I go about getting him back … he isn’t asking to see me it’s been me asking him
He’s also told everyone he doesn’t want this relationship anymore
Well you can't force him to be with you
Your best bet is just give him time and hope the time will make him calm down. But I would keep that hope too long
Because you can't assume what he's saying isn't true
Perhaps he really is done with you and your gonna have to accept that
Wouldn't**** keep that hope too long*
Why keep seeing me then?
Probably is just having trouble letting go. Maybe he will get over it and go back to you
But as I said, don't count on it and then be surprised when he moves on
Just be prepared for the worst, that way you won't be disappointed
He didn’t come. Said he doesn’t want to give me the wrong idea
I can't say I'm surprised
Probably thought it through and decided he didn't want to be with you any mo
But will that last? He is couch surfing currently the day before we broke up was so in love telling. His friends. It’s been two weeks I don't know he still follows me and watches all my stuff. Just not sure if it’s temporary or it’s something he will calm down from and realize he still loves me and it can be worked out.
not a good idea