Drove past his house…?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know why I’m so obsessed with driving past my ex house. Last night when I got out of work at 11:30pm, on my way home I saw a silver car (not his car) pulling out of his driveway. I’m upset because it’s late at night and wondered who could that be… I don’t want him to replace me with someone else, but I guess that’s what I’m afraid of.

[Anonymous]

I used to do that 😂 I had to stop doing it for my own sanity

[Asker]

Yea? Lol I don’t know why I keep doing it. He’s the type of guy who constantly comes back to me lol so I guess maybe I do it to see if he has someone else during the no contact phase

[Asker]

Did you ever see anything when you used to drive by?

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't see any woman at his house. Which is really why I stalked him 😂

A few times , me and my friend parked outside his house all night. Like a stakeout 😂 I was obsessed in finding out if he took women back. He didn't during the times we parked up. But one time he got home early hours of the morning and I convinced myself he'd been with a woman. I had to stop doing it because I just became frustrated and anxious because I never found out for sure. I think the uncertainty prevented me from moving in. If I'd seen him with a woman it would have devastated me but it would have helped me to let go easier

[Opinion Owner]

On**

[Asker]

I know that anxious feeling. I never actually seen the person who pulled out of his driveway the night I drove by but it was late at night so I’m assuming it was another woman. When I was with him, I used to stay by his house up until midnight or sleep over

[Opinion Owner]

How would you feel if you dud see him with another woman? would you move on from him?

[Asker]

Yea I probably would move on from him. To be honest, I feel like seeing the silver car pull out of his driveway late at night kind of gave me the feeling he was with another woman. So that’s enough for me

[Opinion Owner]

I totally understand where you're coming from. Crazy as it sounds I would have hired a PI to follow him if I could afford it. Just zoom I had solid evidence he was seeing another woman. I really believed he was. It's so frustrating not knowing for sure

[Anonymous]

You're stalking. As someone who has been there you gotta stop. Stalking charges don't look good when you're applying for a job, trust me.

[Anonymous]

Seek professional help if you can't stop doing that.

[Akam93]

Then why the hell did you break up with him? 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Had trust issues, and he seemed like he wasn’t into me anymore

[Asker]

He wouldn’t make any efforts in the relationship. He always wanted me to do nice things for him but not the other way around

[Akam93]

Well I'm sure you'll find someone better in life. Takes times to heal believe me.

[KrakenAttackin]

What you are doing is STALKING.