My ex ghosts me and ignores me all the time even though he’s always the one who starts conversation with me.
Each time he does it I always wanna know why because it’s the same thing that happens over and over.
He will ignore me and ghost me.
It’s like I’m begging for a text back.
He will tell me he’s working 24/7 he’s drained, he's doing all these things and if I say we’ll look you can’t be busy 24/7 he says I’m accusing him.
He tells me accusing is such a turn off.
All I’ve ever done is try and talk to him about why he did the things he did to me and where I stand with him as I feel he treats me so bad.
And he just won’t answer these questions he always just says he hates repeating the same stuff.
But what is he repeating? All he ever says is oh I fight all the time or I accuse or just in general blames me.
Like last night I just said right you win I’m going back to no contact again because I give up I’m never gunna get my answers it’s been a year.
All I know is he treats me like crap and doesn’t care and blames me for everything with saying he wasn’t perfect and that he can’t change the past.
But months later I could get an email from him saying something random and I’m meant to ignore it and not question it because oh it’s my fault
I’m just fed up
Each time he does it I always wanna know why because it’s the same thing that happens over and over.
He will ignore me and ghost me.
It’s like I’m begging for a text back.
He will tell me he’s working 24/7 he’s drained, he's doing all these things and if I say we’ll look you can’t be busy 24/7 he says I’m accusing him.
He tells me accusing is such a turn off.
All I’ve ever done is try and talk to him about why he did the things he did to me and where I stand with him as I feel he treats me so bad.
And he just won’t answer these questions he always just says he hates repeating the same stuff.
But what is he repeating? All he ever says is oh I fight all the time or I accuse or just in general blames me.
Like last night I just said right you win I’m going back to no contact again because I give up I’m never gunna get my answers it’s been a year.
All I know is he treats me like crap and doesn’t care and blames me for everything with saying he wasn’t perfect and that he can’t change the past.
But months later I could get an email from him saying something random and I’m meant to ignore it and not question it because oh it’s my fault
I’m just fed up
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Yep. That’s when the relationship gets stale and people move on.
Noted moving on
Good luck in everything !!
Thank you
Why are you two bickering and being toxic as if you’re still in a relationship? He’s your EX. Treat him as such. Cut off contact and stop giving him your attention. I don’t understand why you’re still tolerating his behaviour when you’re not even together.
Because maybe I’m hurt and I wanted things to work out but it’s like I can’t get anywhere with how much I try but yeah I guess your right just move on
He doesn’t sound like a great person to be with, you should really move on and try to find someone who won’t ignore you or treat you like crap. You can’t heal from being hurt if you’re still holding onto the person who hurt you.
That’s very true your right thank you 💓