Last year my girlfriend cheated on me and then I learnt hard way but I had been able to move on finally?

[shu2905]

One way to move forward is to focus on self-care and prioritize your well-being. This could involve seeking support from friends and family, engaging in activities that bring you joy, or seeking professional help. It may also be helpful to reflect on the reasons why the relationship ended and what you can learn from the experience.

In conclusion, getting over the pain of being cheated on is a journey and there is no single solution that works for everyone. But with time and self-care, it's possible to heal and move forward.

[Guy13]

Congratulations on your recovery. It takes a year without another relationship interfering to heal properly. Hang in there and good luck with your endeavors

[On_cloud_wine]

How would you know it takes a year to heal properly?

[Guy13]

@On_cloud_wine Been there done that. For 4 months good times even if one is cheated on. Rest of it is dealing with the emotions which is slow process. WE process much differently the the ladies.

[On_cloud_wine]

“We” .. you mean men? That’s BS. I feel like promiscuous women move on just as fast as promiscuous men. The hopeless romantic women who move too fast are the ones who get hurt and take longer to heal, the ones who don’t know the difference between love and infatuation.

[On_cloud_wine]

Besides the fact that moving too fast is the worst mistake you can make when you want to find love and settle down, chemicals exchange, some kind of love hormone which can confuse the heck out of anyone.

I look at it this way.. those who murder and kill or shop lift lose a sense of feeling guilty and it turns them to the dark side. They find it hard to turn back or ever be the same again without God’s interference, and it’s so much more difficult to get back to God when you’ve gone too far

[On_cloud_wine]

It really depends on the person. That’s why I wanna be with someone God fearing.. because I know his soul in that sense.

[On_cloud_wine]

I believe in soul mates, and I don’t feel the universe or God or angels will bring me to him if I keep waisting my time and energy satisfying my sexual needs or wanting to be with someone just to boost my confidence or validation or what have you

[On_cloud_wine]

Besides, I don’t think my soul mate would like the fact that I have given my body away to multiple men

[On_cloud_wine]

I know him before I even know him.. look at that. 😝

[Guy13]

@On_cloud_wine One can not "move-on" like Emotion Is Not. We reconcile our Emotional account or we are chaotic and disorganized Beings covering and moving to the next covering (Fig Leaf or Situationship, if you will).

[On_cloud_wine]

What philosophy or philosophies or philosophical views have you been reading?

[Guy13]

@On_cloud_wine I know you are as old as Moses so I expect you to enlighten me... It is for sure you're a burning bush.

[On_cloud_wine]

I shave my bush so I don’t have to worry about that.

[Guy13]

@On_cloud_wine That bush put another year on it at 107 now...

[On_cloud_wine]

Shut up and kiss me. 💋

[italianduce]

Boy, I think you're not very smart

[Orion76]

Good for you, don’t look back

[Anonymous]

*learned