How do you co-parent when there’s feelings still involved?

[Myamay1377]

I’m really stuck in the middle on how to co-parent but control my feelings at the same time. He’s rushed into something with someone new and got mad today when the new girl was dropping him off because I was still sitting at the grandmother’s house when I was dropping off our daughter. He said “how am I supposed to lose feelings for someone when you’re letting her sit at the house, she needs to leave”. But he was nice and talking to me Saturday and was asking if I was staying or not. it’s like a whole 360. I haven’t tried to cause any issues or confrontation but it’s kind of hard to move on when I still have to communicate and see him and I know how much I still Iove him and want the best for him. I just know now my main focus is my daughter and doing right by her now.

[Anonymous]

I was in a similar situation. So I can relate to how painful this must be for you. One of the most painful experiences to face is seeing someone you still love, loving someone else.

I was very close to his parents and it was so painful going to their house with the kids. It brought back memories of when we were a happy family unit.

He eventually met someone new. The heartache I felt is indescribable. But I tried to focus myself and rebuild a new life on my own while he or his parents were looking after our children. I used the time on my own to focus on me. When I was caring for my children they always came first. So whenever he looked after our children i used the time on my own to put me first.

[KrakenAttackin]

Chad Thundercock will not commit to you and trying to trap him by pregnancy was a foolish decision.

[Myamay1377]

Yeah that comment was dumb asf, bye.

[KrakenAttackin]

Bye Felicia