How can women be so casual about destroying their families through divorce and separation. How is it so easy for women?

[Anonymous]

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Women file for divorce between 80-90% of the time claiming "no fault". These women get bored, so they destroy their families. Even if we say "fuck the husband" (which is wrong), how are women so willing to destroy their kids lives?

Society has given women a free pass for too long. When will women be held accountable for the destruction they create? Does anyone realize how messed up kids are who come from single -mother households? Suicide, drugs, incarceration, sex abuse, etc?

[ManOnFire]

Women divorce like crazy because they get tired of waiting for the husband to change - which is the women's fault. Tons of women get involved with men they think they can fix or will foolishly and literally 'wait for them to change,' not realizing that the men never will because they know the women are putting up with it.

They will get into relationships with men they already can see have problematic behaviors, hygiene, habits, attitudes, etc. but these women are so caught up in cutesy, romantic feelings that they stay blind to that stuff in the hopes it'll change, or they will actually be with the men thinking they can change him. So after they've "put up" with it long enough, through marriage and kids and getting a home together, the reality of women's foolish fancies catches up with them and they realize these guys aren't going to change and then they want out. This is why 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

Meanwhile, the men who already had their shit together and were mature enough for marriage - and relationships period - were not what those women wanted because deep down they didn't like that a man was more put together than she was, so she chose going on a ridiculous mission of being with a man she wanted to "fix" to her liking, even though she would've become bored with him later.

[inhua]

because of inability to control their feelings and the need for instant gratification

rather than working on fixing the relationship (assuming it needs fixing) she'd rather just give up on it even when she's the one at fault for this

the most common excuse is the husband was "abusive" however that is just code for the husband has boundaries he refuses to let be crossed

the most common reason which is too politically incorrect is her hypergamy kicking in and influencing her to cheat on her husband and chase after another guy

funnily enough it's lesbian marriages that have the highest rates of divorce and gay marriages are the stronger than heterosexual marriages

[D_Bone_Steak]

Government... and the government only changes its tune and cuts off social welfare services when they want to increase the population. They currently want to delete us so for you men out there... pay attention... you're only there really to pay an 18 year subscription to being able to say you have a kid. Pretty much how it is in western countries. At least the whole world hasn't gone insane.

[Asker]

Aside from east money, how can these women do this to their children? Kids love their Fathers and women readily destroy their families, isolate the father from the kids, and start banging a new guy like nothing. I just don't understand how women can look in the crying faces of their kids and think "but I want to be 'happy' regardless of who it hurts".

[D_Bone_Steak]

Women are basically cruel. They only care about themselves 9/10th's of the time. If they have a financial way to kick the man out on the dirt, they take it. I mean because how dare a man says she can't fuck other men. Patriarchy! With that said... they don't really give a shit about their own kids... nothing more than leverage.

[Asker]

Man, I guess so. I am amazed how women torture their own kids just so they can look for a Chad to fuck. It just stuns me.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I know right. Not a moral bone in their body... just the bones they get in their vagina. The kids get nothing out of it but listening to them fuck and getting molested by step-dads themselves. The damn woman can even witness it at do nothing. Put that into perspective... if your wife was caught bouncing on your kid's from another mama's dick... that's just nothing? Just a thing? Fuck no... that woman is a whore. Yet they'll let men get away with it as if it is nothing as long as they get paid. A woman's moral perspective is basically shit. They'll justify cheating on any level just because.

[Asker]

I am just dumbfounded by women.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I just got redirected here because of the update. I figured I'd share something that I'm just sort of noticing by reading about serial killers' childhoods. An awful lot of them had abusive mothers and any father figure was removed from them. A lot of sexual abuse. I think women in general have such great reach that it's effecting society in general through their kids. Like the kids that aren't even gay being coached into thinking they're trans. Reminds me of my first paycheck... I lived with my aunt and her man. She took all the money on the ride home. I go into the house and her man was like, "So you got your first paycheck, what you going to do with all that money?" I explained to him she took it already. Dude, he checked her ass so fast and made her give me my money back. Now imagine if he wasn't there... I'd be a 16 year old getting his cash stripped already. They had plenty of money so it wasn't like they needed extra money. She just wanted to take my money.

[Anonymous]

Half of marriages end in divorce, women file 80% of them, and the #1 reason for divorce is lack of commitment.

If you compare the divorce rates of lesbian, gay and straight marriages, the rate among lesbians is the highest by far, the rate among gays is the lowest, and straight marriage are in the middle. The more women involve, the higher the divorce rate.

Today's women have no sense of commitment. They don't take wedding vows seriously.

[Asker]

Anon... YES and they don't give a shit about the impact on their kids!

[Opinion Owner]

I think they do care, just not as much as they care about themselves.

[LazerBean]

The same way men are casual about sticking their dicks in random women without regard for the potential outcomes.

[Asker]

This is not true. There are a small percentage of men who screw anything but most men are good men. Most women don't hesitate to destroy their families and the statistics bare this out. The selfishness of women is just striking.

[LazerBean]

You're being delusional, the vast majority of men don't know the women they screw 10% as much as they would if they were being responsible and intelligent.

[Asker]

@LazerBean. Sorry, but the numbers don't bare that out. Women fike for divorces and men end up killing themselves, and the children are destroyed... and women don't care.

[LazerBean]

And If men cared then they would stop acting like sluts. How many women have you slept with?

[LazerBean]

Also I'd like to see your source on the percentage of men divorced men that kill themselves.

[Asker]

@LazerBean. Clearly you are overly emotional, which is part of the problem. Women just act out of emotion and consequences for everyone else be damned.

[LazerBean]

So far the only emotional person here is you. And your emotions are exactly why you're okay with slutting around.

[Asker]

Wow, classic female projection there.

[Asker]

@LazerBean. You must really hate your husband.

[LazerBean]

Nah he's great. He's not a woman projecting woman like you.

[Asker]

@LazerBean At least you don't put your husband down. Most women talk horrible shit about their men.

[LazerBean]

That's because most women only have access to "men" like you.

[Asker]

@LazerBean. Wow, way to slam the average man. Most men are hard working, faithful, people, who are just average. And I constantly hear women talking shit about their men.

I guess you are some special princess fallen from heaven.

[LazerBean]

The average man is promiscuous and untouchable. You know it as well, otherwise you wouldn't have ignored my asking what your body count was.

[Asker]

@LazerBean. For a supposedly happily married woman, you have a serious issue with men. Did you get pumped and dumped a lot?

[LazerBean]

Not at all, I married my first boyfriend. Also that's a really odd and hypocritical comment coming from someone who made a whole post talking about your issues with women.

[SnowedIn]

How can men be so casual about destroying their families through their cheating and sleeping around? How is it so easy for men?

[Asker]

Great feminist talking points but it's clear men and children get the shirt end in divorce, and women just don't care.

[LazerBean]

Hoes don't like it when you call them out on their hoe activities, silly SnowedIn.

[SnowedIn]

@LazerBean ... damn. lmao. You are right once again. I'll take my naivete and trudge elsewhere, I suppose.

[LazerBean]

Aww Im sorry I shouldn't have sounded so negative towards you. I find your naivete mildly endearing.

[SnowedIn]

@LazerBean ... I thoroughly loved your comment! :) DIdn't think negativity at all. Appreciate your sanity and wisdom around here.

[Asker]

Are you a moderator?

[SnowedIn]

@Asker I'm not. Based on her pfp @LazerBean isn't either.

[LazerBean]

You're very kind, SnowdIn

[Asker]

@LazerBean But he's a simp so you would never fuck him, just use him for resources.

[SnowedIn]

... ah yes. I forgot. "Nice" and "kind" = simp. @LazerBean I'm sorry to hear that you won't fuck me. 😢 But, please let me know when you need the resources, I'll make sure they're available.

[Asker]

@snowedin. Oh she will.

[LazerBean]

@SnowedIn have you ever noticed how all the self-proclaimed "nice guys" can only think of relationships and women in the context of sex? Lol It's almost as if they really aren't nice at all and that's why they are the rejects of society. And I also appreciate your generosity in offering your resources, but I already have a nice and kind simp husband who is supplying all of his resources.

[SnowedIn]

@LazerBean ... I have noticed that. But I wouldn't know much about sex because I'm too busy simping to get a woman. I'll have to dream.

Glad to hear your husband is taking care of you. Please let him know I'll see him next month at the Association of Simps Symposium (ASS) and look forward to catching up. That is, if you give us permission to go?

[LazerBean]

I give you permission to go, but I'm afraid my husband is booked. I actually have a really bad chronic condition where every evening I fall ill from lack of attention and he has to nurse me back to health. The process can take several hours. I'm afraid you will have to take a recording of the meeting and mail it to him.

[SnowedIn]

@LazerBean ... well, that's disappointing but I understand. Your needs come before his as it should be.

I'll send that recording as soon as I'm done with ASS.

[LazerBean]

I hope you have lots of ASS fun!

[Asker]

@LazerBean Well, I'm glad you both finally understand.

[slatyb]

It's not at all easy. Usually when that happens the family was destroyed by the husband's bad behavior.

[Asker]

@slatyb. I don't believe that for a second. I have seen too many good women destroyed by bad women.

[Asker]

Good men destroyed by bad women.

[slatyb]

That happens too, it almost happened to me.

[Anonymous]

How is it so easy?

[Asker]

Yes. Women divorce at the drop of a hat, not caring about the effect on their kids, and certainly not the husband. The selfishness of women is brutal.

[Opinion Owner]

LMAO.

[Asker]

Seriously? Is it the whole Disney thing where you feel you are owed the world?