Why my ex is contacting my friends?

[bongo]

My ex got to know my friends thanks to me but she still contancting with them why she is contacting my friends?

[Guy13]

Nice, he’s still controlling you snd messing with your head. Think back to the friends that use to keep tabs on him for you. The ones there for you with insight. One’s thst knew things and “saw” things…. Look for those and him to pop up out the wood work or out the kitchen cabinet like German roaches

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[ilovedabi]

There is many reasons she could be doing this 1. they could be friends 2. she's trying to see if your back to dating, still like her or so on 3. She could be trying to get with your friends 4. She could just be bored and trying to make convo. Try and talk to your friends and see why she's texting because it could be normal or she could be trying to date your friends

[fantasticass]

It depends, male friends or female friends. Intentions are different for both.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Just because you parted ways, doesn't mean she or they now have some mystical obligation to sever all contact. Perhaps she knows she screwed up, but that doesn't make her total persona non-grata. You're part of a network of friends. Not a mafia. You're an ex, not the Godfather. If she turned her back on you, that doesn't mean an automatic hit.

[OlderAndWiser]

We could speculate, but. . . why don't you ask your friends? They would know.

[ManOnFire]

This isn't uncommon. She either still likes talking to them even though you guys are split up, or she's doing it to get info about you and see if you're dating anybody else now. The latter is also common. But neither situation necessarily bears any kind of deep importance.

Question: do you want to reconnect with your ex?

[ChattyGuy43]

She obviously likes one of your friends more and trusts talking to them rather than talking to you.

OR

She has the hots for one of your friends behind your back.

It's happened to me, and I still have a grudge against that person for doing so.

Watch your friends closely to see if one of them is acting wierder than usual or more secretive then usual.

[Lycirian]

They call it EX for a reason. Because it doesn't work out. Getting back being friends with an Ex can bring back emotions because of the past they had together. So being just friends will never be JUST friends 100%.

[Smoothing]

Perhaps she made friends with them while you were together. In which case her being in touch with them, is none of your business. You can't control who your friends or your ex makes friends with. You just have to deal with it in the best way you can.

[Shygirly30]

I would say this depends if she was friends with them before u got together, if so she could be feeling like there no reason to cut their friendship off just because your relationship with her broke down

[invalid1]

Because she's a bitch, that's why.
A bitch's mind is nowhere about you.

[Drumlin2001]

Is she now friends with your friends partners? How long were you together?

[hotwheelz78]

EITHER SHE WANTS TO SADDLE UP THAT PONY, OR JUST WANTS TO GET INFO ON ME,**OR**WANTED TO SABOTAGE MY SHIT... MOST LIKELY:) ALL THREE!!

[noohair]

I just hope that she is not trying to hurt you. Ask your friends to refrain from giving her any information about you.

[hismave]

Maybe she just wants to still feel connected to you or she likes them or she likes likes them

[TheAfrikan]

Basically she might be wanting to know wats goin on in your life.

[krin_m]

Well, it may just be friendship between them.

[Cheerfull009]

My ex, May be having friendship with my friends

[Creative_Name04]

Umm maybe they were mutual friends while you dated

[Manuel2]

She is planning to take you back or legal reasons

[Tonyblony5150]

Maybe your ex know something that you don't

[msc545]

ask her