Could you all tell me if my decision was right?

[fsgll]

I met this woman she was, adorable, cute and fun to talk to, and I liked her so much we just kissed. And it was obvious that we were attracted to each other but I couldn't help that she was married and I didn't wanna interfere with that and she said the L word to me so I decided to break up with her I didn't like doing this to another's man wife even if he didn't know me. Am I wrong?

[WaterIsland]

I wouldn’t have even kissed her. I truly believe that things come around. If you were her husband, would you like that some guy was kissing your wife? Highly doubtful. I know I wouldn’t be ok with that.


I believe that you should treat others the way you want to be treated. Respecting others (even if you don’t know them) I believe pays itself millions of times over in the future.


So I think your decision to end things is right. But I personally wouldn’t have even kissed her.

[fsgll]

yeah it's eating me that I kissed her.

[WaterIsland]

Don’t let it. Most people wouldn’t even reflect on it like you are. Some people would be jerks, not reflect on it, and feel zero remorse. Which isn’t good.

Whereas, you’re reflecting on it. And you’ve clearly learned from it. Hey, we all make mistakes. The difference between successful people vs not, is successful people learn from their mistakes and reflect on them.

So I think you’re ok. Can’t change the past. Just learn from it, and try to do better next time. Major props to you for reflecting on it and not just being a jerk about it.

[Guy13]

I think it is a wise move especially given how jealous spouses react these days.

[fsgll]

It's more than worrying about how jealous he might get its about morality

[lightbulb27]

yes, you can't trust a woman like that. You have no idea whom she is... your values saved you from a lot of problems...

[In_Trance]

There's no such thing as right or wrong

[fsgll]

There's right and wrong and sins that's why I'm still virgin even though I'm 23 for religious purposes

[In_Trance]

No, there definitely isn't. This question you ask is all the evidence you need. You made a decision and are unable to determine which one it is. The reality is, it could be good or bad depending on what happens from here and of course, your perception.