Do you think it’s better to break up before having children or after having children?

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Let’s say you’re destined to break up, which one would you rather choose?

I would choose, after having children cause this way I would always have part of him with me.

He always wanted 2-3 children with me. Before break up he told me though that he was no longer ready for marriage and wanted to explore more out there, he thought he wouldn’t give me and our future children a good family now and he didn’t want to waste my time. So, in a way, he thought it would be better to break up before having children, as we were already engaged.

I always think though that it would have been less harder for me if I had his child, I would feel like our love at least had a physical manifestation.

Maybe that would make it easier to move on, life wouldn’t be any easier but emotionally I would feel better. Just like having a child of a husband who passed away.

Do you think it’s better to break up before having children or after having children?
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