Love my wife, hate my stepsons?

[Chastigar2000]

I love my wife. But because of the way I feel about her children, my step sons, (1 dislike & 1 intensely hate) both in their 20's, the bed has been very cold lately. It makes me want to cheat or leave. I don't know what to think

[Anonymous]

okay and? you got into this relationship knowing that she had kids from previous relationships. if the kids are in the 20's... you won't be being around them for long anyway. i'm sure they don't like you either.

[LazerBean]

Seems pretty normal when stepchildren are involved. Get marriage counseling I suppose.

[Nikki1989]

You need marriage counselling and fast.

[hIopinionated_]

Divorce her. She deserves better as no man who truly loves her will ever think of cheating or hurting her in any way

[Chastigar2000]

... said someone who has never been in this spot

[hIopinionated_]

Nor will I ever be in that spot because I don’t have a cheater mentality and marriage leaves women vulnerable. Both possibilities doesn’t sound good considering men like you exist and I’m too loyal and honest for my own good

Besides, my answer may have been harsh but I’m sure you can find other reasons to want to leave her, I just chose MY reasons. What’s the issue with that

[Chastigar2000]

The issue with that is that you didn't even ask a single question. You just jumped to the most banal conclusion. Thanks anyhow. Clearly this is not a place for meaningful conversation. Sorry I joined.

[hIopinionated_]

What lol? One of your options was leaving her (that’s divorce)

[hIopinionated_]

All I did was answer your question. Not my fault you didn’t like it

[Adaeva]

Before it gets more expensive, leave her.

[LiamJHayden]

Two of the wisest people on here already told you what you should do.

[Chastigar2000]

Thanks all again for the wise feedback. If I were 22 this would be insightful. I'm 48. Guess I'm quitting this board.

[Iron_Man]

Wow go to a marriage counselor

[Chastigar2000]

Wow, we never thought of that.

[Iron_Man]

Go for it