Is it okay to hate my step family (I'm 16, brother 17, stepsister 21)?

[CrayonQueen]

So one day my brother and I were working on our physics project. We were working all happily and then our step sister came and started cooking. I went to the restroom and then when I came back it was all smoky and something smelled burnt. I asked what happened, and my brother told me she burned her food. Then I was in the kitchen and she came around, I asked her to wash the pan since she left pieces of burnt tortilla, she said "It was already dirty" So I was like "That doesn't mean you shouldn't clean." And she was like "I would believe you if it looked new, but it doesn't." and then she went to her room. My brother asked me "What happened?" and then I told him what she said, and she came out in the middle of me talking, and was like "If you wanna say shit at least say it to my face." and I said, "You're a fucken pig. Do you think you have no responsibilities?" Then she called me a bitch and my brother yelled, "CLEAN!" and she just slammed the door. So she was pissed because she wanted to continue her discussing life or something. I was pretty pissed. The next day my bf came over and we kissed platonically on the sofa. Step sister walked in on us, and went in her room and then she told her dad that we were about to have sex on the sofa. Then he told my mom, and since my mom also walked in on us, too she knew it was a lie, she told me what she said. My Stupid Step Farther believed her, and told me to respect the household. If I want to have sex to go do that somewhere else. I got mad and I said his daughter, the old stupid sack of shit brings guys in her room and fucks them in there. The moans are disgusting as fuck. My brother and I have to hear that shit, and our step father doesn't say anything. I kiss my bf and the world goes crazy. If I really wanted to have sex I would have locked the door! The discussion was just bad. Well basically I hate her and my step father. I know it's horrible but I am in deep hatred with my step sister mostly. Should I hate them?

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WE ARE MOVING AWAY! The curse has been broken because my step sister hit my mom!

[apple24]

Lol I wouldn't get near her! If I were you I wouldn't let her know I care. I probably treat her indifferently and never give her my time. I am to valuable to be wasting my time and emotion on someone like that. I would take her attitude as jealous or as a compliment because she must be jealous of your life or the person you are. I mean if I was 21, hell I wouldn't even think about my step-sister life or act that way. It sound so childish of her to act that way. I almost 20 by the way and a women that act like that has serious issues. She might be anyoned by her life or angry at herself and take on other people to feel better. Also, are you hispanic, lol just asking cuz you said tortilla and well I am one.

[CrayonQueen]

Yus lol tortillas say it all. Luckily she left to Arizona to visit her family for a while, their problem now. Better enjoy it while it last! My brother and I are having the time of our lives. XD

[Random_chick_2384]

oh I would be pissed too. If it were me I would make sure her life is hell. just saying. Like walk in on her and embarrass her, make a mess I know she would have to clean up ( yes I'm a horrible person ) and crap like that.

[CrayonQueen]

You're not horrible, I've actually thought of putting something in her shampoo, because apparently all she does is judge others and care about the way she looks. I can't make a mess because sadly I have to clean almost everything.. I've also been thinking about getting a rodent in her room. Never thought about walking in.. I think I should try that... :D

[Random_chick_2384]

Lol I think she might get embarrassed :) and oh my goes putting something in her room. Lmao!

[CrayonQueen]

Hahaa maybe that's too evil... Sounds Great! XD

[mutedaisy]

Sure, hate them... you didn't choose them to be part of your family. Although, you should figure out a way to coexist.

[CrayonQueen]

I've tried, but with someone like that, it's impossible, trust me..

[mutedaisy]

I'm sorry you have to put up with that :/ Save up now so that you will be able to move when you are of age

[Anonymous]

It's normal to feel that way about step family. The thing is though is that, if you go in to it thinking they're bad people, then, aren't they always going to be bad people to you. You need an attitude adjustment

[CrayonQueen]

But they are bad people, I'm not trying to be closed minded. When we walk down the street people are always talking bad about my step sister because she dresses like a slut. She doesn't respect herself or others. She acts like a sluty 15 year old girl, and her father doesn't do shit about it. I'm the youngest, and I have to cook and clean for her. She's a lazy sack of poop.

[mistninja314]

dear my kids and your kids are beating our kids #moment yes you should

[CrayonQueen]

What's wrong with your kids? lol

[mistninja314]

lmao it was a joke about how people be putting together families lolol

[abundantlyrich]

It's okay to hate. It's just a feeling and maybe oneday it won't be like that when you're older

[CrayonQueen]

hopefully :/ but I doubt it..

[abundantlyrich]

Family are tribes in a microscopic view. Some tribes evolve, some break off. It's not always a happy ending.

[CrayonQueen]

Well I hope I leave and never have to see her face again :)

[Anonymous]

Obviously some sexual tension there between you both.