My mother’s boyfriend started to date when she was 30 and he was 25. He raised me like his daughter cause I was only 5 when they met, and we are extremely happy together, but everytime his brother come to visit us, he start calling him a “ beta” or a cuck. He did it when I was 18 and he was 38 by telling him that he should be dating me instead of dating my mom, he called me a mistake when I was 10 when we were alone by telling me that my mom and I are ruining his brother’s life cause he deserve a way better than a single mom, since he’s successful. He also posted a weird video on his Facebook page about some dating coachs saying how dating a single mom is awful and a looser move , ( it was definitely aimed toward us).
My step-dad usually ask him to shut up and to mind his own business , and I wanna stand up to my self too now that I’m 19 but my mom told me, to stop never do it, and that replying to that kind of human is giving him the attention he doesn’t deserve. we tried to be nice with him, but he keep annoying us and disrespecting us!
That’s the thumbnail of the video he posted by the way:
All who says, single mom are not the right people to date and dick heads. There isn't a thing like that. Single mom's child or kid deserve a father too. When the child get affection to her moms boyfriend and the relationship doesn't last. Then problems for the kid may arise to deal with the emotional pain. You are 19 and you are very capable. Find a job, become independent and don't stop your studies. And you and your mother are going to live your life nicely. If your current dad loves you then it's alright, of it's his brother then you don't have to worry, he is like a dog you know, he doesn't understand things and he bark here and there and on YouTube. But ignore him, because we will never understand what he is saying because basically he is barking. Just ignore him. You have a beautiful and ife , if you get any personal problems, you can ask me advice personally. Keep take care of yourself and your loved ones !
9 times out of 10 your Uncle would be right. But he shouldn't be telling you this stuff. Your step dad made his choice. I wouldn't say YOU are a mistake. But for sure your mom has a history of picking the wrong guys to have kids with.
Make sure you don't become a single mom. Don't go getting pregnant by dudes who aren't interested in serious & fatherhood. And don't go trying to be a mom if you can't make that your top priority.
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My mom didn’t became a single mom cause she picked the wrong man but because my dad died when I was a newborn, he was a truly loving man, who always treated her right
Ah. Does your uncle know that? Strange he would complain about a widow. That's different than the typical single mom situation. Then the question is if your mom is in a traditional relationship or is she wearing the pants or not. Traditional dudes frown on the wearing the pants thing. At any rate, your uncle should stay out of it. I wouldn't sweat it.
If she follows his leadership it's still traditional to a large degree. If he followed her and she's a typical woman who is emotional that's not traditional at all tho. Or if he's a guy who acts like a woman, also not traditional. Anyhow, thanks for MHO
i mostly feel bad for u tbh, bc nothing of this is your fault, but dating a single mom is not an easy task for a man, but even so, yeah, ur uncle is kinda of a dick
