If your parents and your partner hate each other, what would you do?

[itsannalee]

[ohsheeT]

Well eventually one day I would sit them all down and say listen and listen good all three of you this is not about you guys this is about me in my life and my happiness and if you guys cannot grow up enough to get along you know what you can go do

Look at when you love somebody and they love you and just because your parents are your parents and they have their reason why they might not like this person but if they cannot be big enough or adult enough to bite their tongue and at least get along because they're making it about them and their feelings they're not considering yours and your happiness and that's just b***shirt

[ohsheeT]

Sorry sent that off way too fast and if your spouse doesn't like them because usually when you don't like somebody it's because they're right on what they're thinking or saying because if it's not true you don't care you just really don't care but if it is true you don't like that person because they know something about you and if the guys trying to manipulate you or if you away from your parents you need to think about that too

[AviatorTom]

I'd stay with my partner, and if necessary, avoid contact involving my partner and my parents.

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic "Romeo and Juliet" conundrum! My aim here is to bring peace and harmony to your heart. First, keep the communication lines wide open between you and each party. You’ll want to understand the reasons behind the tension and address any doubts or misconceptions. Balancing this delicate situation takes patience and empathy. Remember, you're not a boxing referee—love should prevail over conflict. Good luck on your diplomatic mission! ❤️✨

[Hellraiser1984]

Break it off before you have kids. My grandmother married my grandfather and her father hated him to death. When my grandfather died in Vietnam my grandmothers father laughed his ass off. Then my father and his sister were disowned and treated like complete crap. Now I pay for it. I don't exist and never will. All my cousins hate me. My aunt hates me. They treat me lower than a cockroach. They beat me, burn me beat my head in with baseball bats threw me on the sidewalk and took turns stomping on my head. They starved me for 2 weeks and smear human s**t in my face. All because of my grandmother marrying my grandfather. If you want kids please break it off. Don't let your parents do to them what's been done to me. I don't exist. No one loves me. Please break it off.

[Daniela1982]

I would think your parents would have a better stake in what will make you happy than some guy off the street. The divorce rate will tell you that we don't always make the right choice. Your parents might see something you are too blind to see as all you may see is hearts. 😍

[itsannalee]

I wish you were a bit smarter to understand what “if” meant 🥹

[KrakenAttackin]

Spot on correct.

[Danny_dan92]

My parents have been married for over 30 years and they’ve been dealing with issues lately.




My mom is really close to filing for divorce. Which breaks my heart because they been married for so long. But I also understand why my mom is beginning to consider doing it

[Anonymous]

I

sticking w my parents. My parents are very nice, generous. You have to pretty much do a lot to get them to not like you. So if they don’t like you there’s a damn good reason. I trust my parents judgement. I am who I am today because of them.

[Den1971]

I keep them separate if I love my family which I do and love my girl which I do and I want to keep both in my mind I try to figure out what I could do to get them to like each other first of all you have to find a root of the problem it was something that can be solved we go out to dinner and I will be the referee and everything will be cordial hopefully

[Makeushiver]

I'm not sure who hates whom in the question. Are you describing a situation where both your parents dislike the individual? If so, what are the reasons they give you and - in your heart of hearts-do you agree to any extent?

[Makeushiver]

Shoot em all and let God sort em out

[Nikki1989]

Partner will always be my main priority. I couldn't care less what my parents think.

[Unit1]

For me it matters not. I have cut off my toxic and abusive parents.

[LiamJHayden]

Dump my partner. My parents were wonderful and pretty much loved everyone, so if they disliked her it would have been because they saw something really, really toxic in her.

[Graptemys79]

I doubt my mother would hate my girlfriend, because I would want her to have similar values as those that I was raised with.

[itsannalee]

I wish you understand what “if” meant.

[michalpl00]

I would look at how the parent is normally. If its a good person. They you might be blindly in love and ignore red flags. If they are a bad person. Then they are just a bad person lol

[exitseven]

My mother did not like my wife. We just saw my mother only when we had to.

[Anonymous]

Take a step back and look at their logical points.

[Iron_Man]

She better get it together because that would be a problem

[lorenzomichael]

What can you do? You don’t do shit but just deal with it.

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

It depends on who's reason for hating the other is more justified.

[TallAnon]

I have reasonable parents, so I would at least think about why.

[Kingofkings1992]

Try to keep them separate as much as possible I guess

[Bricealan]

@itsannalee I hated my father in law...

[itsannalee]

You can choose who your partner, but you can’t choose who your parents in law are.

[Bricealan]

My father-in-law was always an asshole

[SolitarySolace]

I'd leave my partner 🤷🏻‍♂️ family comes first

[Staximus]

I would do nothing

[KittygosMeoWW]

Break up with him unless he’s my husband

[moneymagnet24]

Change the partner as simple as that

[eagle1951]

takes bets on who wins lol

[itsannalee]

Haha good idea 😂

[Agape93]

Nothing

[kaucky1]

Excape somehow