How do I get over my ex?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my now ex boyfriend around 4 years go. Whenever I see a post from his friends social media, as I blocked him, I think back to our memories that we had together. I don’t know why but I do still care about him. If I still feel like this I don’t think I’ll be able to move on.

[razelove]

Well, like on a logical level it's easy to get over emotional attachments with rationality. It is about the feelings though, so when they're there, that's tough, and generally I've found you ride that roller coaster out until the momentum dies.

The roller coaster is when you break up and get back together. So / Is the trajectory of your relationship when you were dating, then you broke up and \ it crashed. If you get back together for a day or week, it'll be familiar, and exciting again / but not as much as before, so when it crashes again it isn't so bad. Each time you hook up after that it gets a little less exciting.

[Anonymous]

If you haven’t had luck with dating then in your lonely or down moments that ex starts to sound not so bad lol. Just keep things in perspective, you left for a reason. If deleting his friends helps then do that too.

[DizzyDesii]

This is why I stay off social media. Even if im over someone, im not tryna see what they’re currently doing

[Nikki1989]

Find someone new. Simple!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

By getting over a NEW EX!

[es20490446e]

By finding someone better.

[boobliker]

find a new house to ride.