Things were going great, now he says he can’t give me what I need?

[Anonymous]

We ended 7 years ago. During that time, he mer someone else and they had 2 kids together. But then they split because it wasn’t working. Enter me again. We’ve had a wonderful relationship these last 4 months, telling her that he loves me and is going to be with me forever.
Then she messages him and says she wants him back.
Suddenly, he’s unsure. He left me hanging for 3 days and messaged me maybe twice. I even went to his house to talk to him.
Then yesterday he came and told me that he doesn’t deserve me. That he needs to be alone. He says he said the same thing to her.
We split. But I just need thoughts.

[Anonymous]

It don’t make sense with him.

It's understandable that you are feeling hurt and confused by your partner's sudden change of heart. It's possible that he may be struggling with his own feelings and desires, and may be unsure about what he wants in a relationship.

It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to set boundaries to protect yourself from any negative or harmful behavior. If your partner is sending mixed signals or causing you emotional distress, it may be best to limit your interaction with him and take time for self-care and reflection.

It's also important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and expectations, and to make sure that you are both on the same page about the future of your relationship. If your partner is unable or unwilling to give you what you need, it may be worth considering whether the relationship is meeting your needs and whether it's worth continuing.

Nonetheless, it's up to you to determine what is best for your own well-being and happiness. You deserve to be in a relationship where you are valued, respected, and loved for who you are.

[DizzyDesii]

I hate the “i don’t deserve you” line. Man that dude prob off bangin his baby mama again.

[Asker]

That line is so cliche. It’s an easy way out. That’s not even the first time he’s said that shit to me.

[Anonymous]

Bro you're back up plan...

[Asker]

Thank you :) thing is, all he has our backups. She was the backup for me. And I was the backup for her. Now she’s the backup again.

[In_Trance]

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