What does he want and what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Me and my current boyfriend had a row over something I don't feel was a big deal. Anyway I left and we didn't speak for 7 days. I got in touch to try and see if we could talk as I didn't want things left on a bad note. Anyway I couldn't wait so I messaged him. He said he didn't think there was a way back... I'm kinda shocked our relationship ended over this row. He then went onto say maybe we could be friends and see where things go?

I've tried to suggest we talk and he keeps saying he is still annoyed and doesn't want too. He dumped me and when I ask him if that's what he wants, he doesn't say. He just stares blankly at me.
Does he actually want to be friends or be with me? Why would I remain friends if he won't even discuss a misunderstanding?

Sadly I want him to talk and us to make amends but I feel he doesn't want me or fight for me, and so I feel like shit even thinking about us.

I keep thinking it's over and I just want clarity and a clear yes or no answer. Not me assuming it is because the way he acts

[SnowedIn]

I'm really sorry this happened to you.

You ask a lot of good questions.

"Does he actually want to be friends or be with me?" Based on you writing that he stares blankly at you, no, I don't think he does.

"Why would I remain friends if he won't even discuss a misunderstanding?" You probably wouldn't. You can read my opinions, I'm pretty much open to a lot, including with exes, but this sounds like a bit much.

"What does he want?" I have no clue -- he may not either. Unless, and I'm sorry to say this, he was just looking for an excuse to break up?

But, finally, you best question, "what should I do?" I say move on. I read what you say about wanting clarity and a clear yes or no. Based on all of what you wrote, I don't think you're going to get that. His behavior is immature and his communication skills even more so. Move on and look forward.