I've been talking to this guy online for a while now, and we started out as friends but I keep noticing how he's so overly affectionate with me lately. He keeps calling me his princess/darling and he knows it gets me flustered but he keeps teasing me and flirting with me. I remember him telling me about his crush, it was months ago but I'm just confused why he's suddenly being flirty? What does he want with me? He also called our status as a "relationship" and I'm just very confused right now đ¶ââïž
What does he want with me?
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You've only been talking? So you aren't in a relationship nor has he asked to be your boyfriend? I would be careful because he is giving you what you want to hear and not making you exclusive. So don't give him more of you if he isn't giving you what you want, like dates, phone calls and texts. You want to make sure that he is putting effort and not just seeing what he can get from you by just saying cute things
He's a great guy, but I just don't see myself with him or liking him right now because I think that we haven't truly known each other deeply yet. I think it is all just infatuation.. yet sometimes I get so confused why he's so flirty for no reason at all
Yeah it takes time to get to know someone. You are being smart and maybe he can grow on you or maybe just leave it as friends. Either way it's best to take it slow and talk and be honest with him
Why donât you ask him? You donât want actually clarity from the source? You donât wanna know what happens next? Donât get so caught up in trying to be cool and passive that you are afraid to ask the important questions. Youâre a grown woman; itâs ok.
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Thank you for the advice, Confrontation is something I've Always struggled with and I'm not used to asking really "tough questions" so I will ask him myself. đ
Iâve struggled with the same thing but you have to remember this isnât a confrontational conversation, donât create that illusion around something where it doesnât exist, otherwise youâll never use your voice. Letâs say something actually happens between you two, there will be things that upset or confuse you and itâs important that you feel comfortable enough to speak up. Otherwise heâll get passes for everything and youâre suffer in silence, that canât be a thing. This is a very simple conversation with a yes or no answer, nothing major âșïž
He wants you to be his woman.
Wait what!
Why the shock?
He doesn't even make a move on me or indicate that he likes me! He just... flirts with me and teases me đ