What does he want from me?

[lexih_919]

So the past two weeks my boyfriend and I been fighting. Him and I been together for a year and 7 months. There’s this older woman named Kristine that he’s been friends with for 3 years and has a family and a husband. I stopped their friendship bc my friend told me they slept together. He holded on resentment towards me for months and was saying he doesn’t love me anymore that he’s not attracted to me. That he hates me and thinks I’m annoying. He said he did this as manipulation to get her back. Now he’s saying he does love me and wants to make things work. I am so torn and confused at this point. Out of anger I said I was going to ruin his life if he left so I don't know what he truly wants.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof girl, this sounds like a mess of a situation. Honestly, I wouldn't trust this dude as far as I could throw him.

A few red flags here:

- Slept with his "friend" who has a whole family? Shady as hell.

- Holding resentment and being manipulative to try get her back. Major disrespect and distrust issues.

- Flipping between saying he hates you and loves you. Playing with your emotions hardcore.

I know you've been together a while, but this guy screams untrustworthy. Threatening to ruin his life if he leaves is a bad move - don't stoop to his level.

Personally I think you gotta leave his ass in the dust for good, sis. He's shown you who he really is - a liar and cheater who'll toss you aside the second something "better" comes along.

You don't deserve that mess. Walk away with your dignity intact. The freedom of being single will feel so much better than dealing with his BS, trust me! Know your worth, girl.

[motownplayer2000]

Toxic relationship. You need help, and so does he.. if this keeps going, you both will be in a world of hurt.

[laly520]

move on

what a clown