What does he want from me?

[Anonymous]

So a close friend of mine caught up after not seeing each other for a few years. We were sending flirty messages before meeting up. We met up for coffee and he kept referring back to the flirty messages. And was talking about young men in their 20s picking up girls and taking them home. And he is not that type of person.
He kept asking what I think about how he looks etc. Also asked if I would be interested in riding his motorcycle. Does it seem like his wants more from me and wants to take it slow? He also takes forever to reply to messages.

[Pinay_ako]

Sounds like he’s married. He’s seeking validation for asking you how he looks and flirting with you. Two, he might be interested. But not too much because he might be taken with family. Hence the long response time. Third, don’t fall for his trap 🪤. Don’t invest yourself too much until he shows his true intentions. Good luck

[Asker]

He isn’t married

[Pinay_ako]

Ok 👌 so what’s the problem? Do you like him? Tell him

[Asker]

Yes I do. But I’m scared of being rejected. Hence why I’m asking. Does it seem like he wants more from me and wants to take it slow? Also, I have said in message, I care a lot about him and I have never come across a guy like him. He replied, thank you for your kind words. He said he has become shy over the years.

[Pinay_ako]

Yea so go for the kill. Don’t waste time. If he rejects you, that’s ok. At least you can move on

[Asker]

I think it’s better to tell him in person.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes true that

[TheBootyChest]

I think he is trying to say that he is trying to be respectful and not looking for just a booty call.

Why he takes forever to reply may be because he is busy, or trying to not come off as too needy.

[Brad951]

Sounds like fun

[Anonymous]

He wants you... In his bed.