How can I convince my husband of not filling for divorce?

cedanor

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He said he lost feelings and he went to the Army. He is coming back in 7 months to file a divorce.

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U can't you was abusive to him in the marriage why would he want to stay after u hit him on multiple occasions

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  Those fights were not frequent, he have a 3 year relationship. I know they are HUGE mistakes. But I am ashamed and sorry for that. I am changing, I am reaching out for help and I’m taking therapy to make sure that never happens again. I need ways to make him trust my commitment and efforts to save our young marriage. I have done good things in my relationship and I trust that the good memories will help me get one more chance. Like I mentioned before when he had the two fights we did not seek for help and continued normally and when the third fight happened we both agreed it was not okay and he talked to our families and I wanted to go with him to therapy, but he instead wanted to escape from the problems and I get it, we were emotionally unstable and with a lot of anger and pain to think about love. But, as time is passing by I want to change myself first like I’m doing right now with therapy and then earn his trust and love back. I want to solve the problem and work towards the future 😔.
  
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  Some mistakes don't get second chances yes its good u see your problems and are fixing them but to be honest I think once I would give my partner 1 chance after they hit me after that I would be done I ditn care why or what the reason was or if they where fixing it thats a path of no return
  
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You don't. You abused him, you have no right to keep a man who doesn't want to be with his abuser. @PrettyPriya

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  Yeah, I had already gone through this with the asker yesterday. She needs to come to terms with the situation.
  
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  Yeah really.
  
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You gotta sweeten up the relationship, I don't know what's missing but something must be.

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Why would you want to? His mind is already made up

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