Am I overreacting to want a divorce because my husband wastes my time manipulates me and refuses help?

[littleracecar7]

He started doing this a 15 months ago we will go to a concert festival or say Thanksgiving at my family's 400 miles away. He started whining and wanted to leave five minutes after we got there. I would say no.

He would leave me stranded there or we would get in horrible fights on the way home. He would say it's no big deal after pouting and sulking all day and screaming at me the whole way home.

I go solo everywhere. His friends think I am horrible. I am sick of rearranging my whole schedule for no reason.

He was all pouty I didn't take him to my reunion or my company Christmas party or my family's house. I waited for him and he never came down. He couldn't decide if he wanted to go or not. So after fifteen minutes I left.

He called the police and reported me missing. Twice. He knew exactly where I was. The police were pissed. At him.

I told him we need therapy. i go for me. I can be impatient and a bitch sometimes. He said he doesn't have a problem.

Get a divorce

Work it out

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I guess I am not compassionate enough. i like to do things. I feel like crap if I don't have a productive day.

[Chazmatazz269]

Yeah, you seem insufferable. I’m with him and his friends.
Divorce him. He deserves better than you.

[littleracecar7]

Elaborate. I think it's unfair of him to make me wait all the time.

[bunny_luv]

take a break from the relationship whether you're married or not. sounds like you need some time to yourself to decide if you want to stay with him. either ask him to make arrangements to stay somewhere else or make your own. for your own sake.

[In_Trance]

Hopefully you're not all talk and you actually do it

[OlderAndWiser]

Why ITF did you get married?

[littleracecar7]

He wasn't like this when we got married. I wish he would talk to a marriage counselor with me. But he won't

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you asked him, "Every time we are together for very long, you seem to be miserable, so why do you stay married to me?"

[littleracecar7]

I have said this. It always ends badly. Even when I am completely calm. he says I am not talking to you. You are sick. You are a damn liar. leave me aloooooooneeee before I call the police. sometimes he breaks my stuff.

[OlderAndWiser]

He sounds like he is mentally ill. Has he ever spent time in a psychiatric hospital?

[DryGermanGuy]

@OlderAndWiser
It‘s the wild story troll again, don’t fall for the bullshit stories.

[OlderAndWiser]

@DryGermanGuy. Thanks for the warning!

[Anonymous]

Stop the trolling