My husband pays for rent but is demeaning?

[Anonymous]

He's often very verbally & emotionally abusive, a little physical too (violent acts like throwing things down in the past) too. Why? Should I leave? Is he 2 faced or mentally ill

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I haven't worked for a couple of months due to personal injury

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I've known him for a long time, around 13 years now. It was better in the beginning though we always argued & were in fights. I noticed recently though he just makes more nastier remarks

[Emanon25]

Could be all the above, you know him more, he might need help.

[Emanon25]

Sorry to hear about your injury, I hope you feel better.

[Anonymous]

When was the last time you two had sex?

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because men build up anger when they can't get sex in a relationship. The more sex he can get the more emotional supporting he can be to you

[Asker]

I don't think that will fix the situation at all. It's inside him, just an intolerable person to live with possible mental health issues

[Opinion Owner]

Its biology. If you have less sex I know thats why. But if you already made up your mind then you already knew what to do before asking

[NYCQuestions1976]

Have the two of you tried therapy?