What works best for you when you're going through the pain of a breakup? Do you get depressed and stay at home or do you socialize and enjoy life?

[josie]

[ohsheeT]

I think we all do with things in the only way we know how and that's how we were programmed to deal with it

Let's pretend that we have every positive and every negative feelin and emotion with in us we come that way

One day your just being you living life and things are OK your content. And the next day somebody comes into your life you get this warm fuzzy feeling they make you smile you start talking and it is as if they woke you up you start to feel alive and every day gets better and better your ordinary everyday content life has now come alive because everything's new they're making you feel something that you might not have felt for a long time what you have to understand those feelings are already inside of you you are the only one that can allow yourself to fill those because you're the only one inside of you.
They make you happy * they make you happy* why because they are doing something. That makes you feel something new and different . understand the feeling that you feel are coming from with in you. Your the only one that is in side of you there your feelings. THEY ARE DOUNG SOMETHING THAT YOU LIKE SOMETHING NEW YOUR LIVING LIFE AGAIN.

Then the day comes and the person says good bye .. of of course you're angry you're confused you're upset and you don't understand why you don't understand why it's so painful

It has to be love right you loved this person. Maybe. But what your really sad and angry about is this person is not in your life no more to open those doors to allow you to allow your own feelings come out and make you feel good you think it was all that person that made you feel the way you feel are felt it's not you are the only person that was inside of you when you felt all those feelings you are the only person that can give you those feelings

They came into your life and they opened those doors for you. They gave you a reason to allow yourself to feel something. ..
Your down and out. And a little tail wagging puppy runs up to you all hyper and excited so happy to see you what do you feel in that moment you love it that little puppy just opened up those doors for you again for you to express yourself to feel something come from you not that puppy is coming from you that puppy opened up the door within you to allow you to feel alive again

A feel good movie come on and at the end the guy falls in love with the girl and it's just the way you wanted it to be and your so happy it makes you cry

They didn't make you feel that way those feelings are all ready in you they opened up a door of every beautiful emotion and feeling that you have Within you opened up those doors they're your feelings not the TV's feeling
It's the same thing when you break up with somebody they were your feelings nobody else's you allowed yourself to feel them just like you allowing yourself to feel bad because you miss that person because they are not there anymore to open up those doors for you you have to understand get up off your ass and open those doors yourself laying in bed being miserable is nothing but a waste of time and energy stand up Shake It Off do something fun exciting and open those doors up for yourself once again they are your feelings and only your feelings because they only come from you whether they're positive or negative good or bad happier sad they are yours and only yours you're the only person on the inside that can make you feel anything so try it try it right now first of all smile go look in the mirror and smile see what that does for you if you cry then you know everything I just said Is Right do you know everything I just said is true because it's your healing you just made yourself cry because you're the only person that can make you do that start living life with you why do tears and smile there's another guy right around the corner someplace go open doors for somebody else make them smile make them happy that will also make you happy

[all_hayl]

What works best for me is to learn from my and the other person’s mistakes and to take a few days or weeks to process and then move on. Live your life. Whatever you do, don’t throw a pity party. Selfish sissies throw pity parties. Learn from it and move on.

[catiecatie]

So I was in a really bad situation last year. The guy I was seeing told me he needed time 3 weeks later he went out of town and find another girl in another state. I was crushed. It honestly took time for my heart to heal which was 6 months. I ended up downloading a dating app and started my journey all over again. I love that I was able to pull myself out and talked with my friends who totally understood. I found amazing hobbies and a crush that I am falling hard for! I don't know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. I guess we will see.

[sheikalana]

Before my last breakup I used to give it some time to recover approx 6 months to one year and I used to go through all the pain but after my last breakup I refused to stay home crying and being sad. I decided to put myself out there. Eventually I met my now partner one month and a half after my last breakup. I do not usually encourage people to move on that fast but the truth is we've been together since then it's been great and we just moved in together and are very happy. It was very risky but it's what works for us.

[Pinay_ako]

I live my best life after him! Meet new people, party, get a makeover and hang out with my friends. I might cry 😭 a bit here and there 🤣 but I will survive

[EricSummer]

I socialize, but I do not enjoy it very much in that situation. So it's not correctly described as "enjoying life".

Still, I get restless and want to meet women. It can be enough to get just a little validation. Last time I sang a duet at karaoké with a much too young woman. It still made me feel better.

It's dangerous to start dating too soon, though. Better to do sports, for example.

[DizzyDesii]

Omg yes i miss karaoke!!

[Luopio27]

Never been in a relationship but I have been rejected over 10 million times.


When I get my heart broken and ass kicked by tve truth, I get locked up in my room, far far away from social life. I get to complain to my friends who then try to cheer me up.

[JesseP1nk]

Don´t do that self pitty shit - l̶i̶s̶t̶e̶n̶ ̶s̶a̶d̶ ̶m̶u̶s̶i̶c̶,̶ ̶e̶a̶t̶ ̶j̶u̶n̶k̶ ̶e̶t̶c̶ - that does not help anyone! That will make you feel worse.

Instead... Socialize - go out with friends, have fun. Work out - like a lot, learn new things - use that anger/frustation to better yourself.

[DizzyDesii]

I flirt my way to feeling better 😂🤷‍♀️

[Yannishka]

I enjoy life, on my own. I need time to think it all over. Before moving on. All while discovering something new thatblife has to offer or something from the past that I dropped.

[Simslover92]

Get depressed and stay at home listening to sad music.

[BlackJeep]

Work on myself and level up. Then I can attract someone better. My current girlfriend did the same. When you meet someone better all the sad feelings go away

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nothing seemed to help me until I started partying.

[Jltakk]

I don't enjoy life when socializing due to mental health concerns. Never been through a relationship, but had I split with someone, I would seek solace in the only place that provides solitude in my life. My bed.

[LiamJHayden]

I have never really had a painful breakup. I think if I did I would go surfing. Or play some Blues on my guitars.

[itsalyssaagain]

I have an ego so I’ll make an effort to go out as much as I can 😂

[hiyamotherfers]

Junk food, movies, warm baths, friends, and if your up for it parties, music, dancing.

[Noodle_fan]

distract your mind on something else , works for example

[Anonymous]

If my girlfriend breaks up with me, I'd just end my life right there. She's the only thing I have to live for and ever will have to live for

[Sofie1999_]

A threesome with Ben and Jerry , good friends, cheesy movies.

[Bobbysworld]

Those are the best threesomes. Especially chocolate fudge brownie and half baked

[Sofie1999_]

My favorite is P. B. & Cookies.

[Bobbysworld]

😋🤤

[mobiusforniner]

Lol. This. Right here. Legit.

[Anonymous]

Staying in for the first week or two and then going out with my friends.

[Anonymous]

Can’t breakup if you never had a girlfriend

[Willoughby23]

Can’t breakup if you never had a girlfriend 🧠

[Actor3]

Get drunk and one night stands. Then marry the least attractive person you meet.

[On_cloud_wine]

I’ve ever been in a relationship

[exitseven]

I mostly just stayed drunk for a few weeks.

[LavLavLuv]

Hangout and shopping with my besties