Should I just end up my relationship with my husband?

[Anonymous]

He’s a good man but we’ve been through a lot already. Now, that I’m leaving to Alaska for work and won’t see him in several months he’s happy and motivating me to do it. Im always traveling for work and come back in less than 3 weeks and he’s always pushing me to go. I feel like he’s happy to be away from me. I feel sad because I don’t have family I’m by myself in this world and instead of having someone to tell me at least for once don’t go I’ll miss you and take care for you he pushes me away. I mean there’s other things as well but

[molonski2]

The answer to your question is NO , its a completely ludicrous suggestion , would you feel better if he said " You MUST quit your job , you are away far too much " ? Crazy stuff.

[boggboss]

If your unhappy in your marriage and have spoken to him about it to no chamge sure end things

[Anonymous]

i think this goes deeper than that. you need to talk to him or your relationship will crumble without you being able to stop it because it'll be too late.

[Quackthulu2]

So you want to divorce because he is supporting your career?

[Asker]

I said he pushes me away not support me. I clearly know the difference. Plus I said there’s others things. When I’m away he pushes me stay even if I have nothing to do anymore.

[BlackJeep]

Communicate what you feel and don't assume what he feels

[Asker]

I did already

[BlackJeep]

and he said he's happy when you're away?

[Asker]

No. He just gets annoyed when I go back home. Even though I finish whatever I’m doing even if it’s just visiting my or his family (because I have business in our country) he pushes me to stay there more time even sends me money to stay there longer. He won’t call me or text me even though I’m telling him I’m alone or in danger. It feels more like pushing instead of Im happy or I’m supporting you. Today I invited him for a drink on his lunch break to tell him the news and he told me “I don’t have money” but when he got there and I told him about bring away for 5 months all of a sudden he had a little bit of money and gave it to me to eat something there. When I’m leaving he does whatever it takes to push me away. That’s what I feel plus ugh I’m alone anyways.

[shades777]

you mean divorce, try marriage counseling

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes! Set this poor guy free.