What would you do if you caught your partner cheating? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

When my wife and I first started to date,

I caught her having sex with her co worker. He was inside her when i caught them. And they weren’t using condoms either.

I let him have her, I told him to enjoy her, and let them finish up, I said to her Wel talk later about this.

none the less she never did it again and we are still together and got married.

[Cuminginside]

Sleep with her sister. If that's not available option then change the locks shut off her cell phone and write a note that says go back to her lover's address because love don't live here no more.

[OddBeMe]

Everyone has their red line. Some people are less hateful toward cheaters.

I remember the first Sex and city movie and one of the girls got cheated on and another had a groom freak out for a minute at her wedding. In comparison, they blamed the groom more and chided the other chick for leaving her cheating hubby. I found that strange.

But anyway it’s a personal call. I do read a lot of research on human Beauvoir and cheating in relationships rarely stops. FYI….

[richardcory]

Laugh. The congratulate her on on fooling me for so many years - an impressive bit of acting. Then probably ask why - seriously out of curiosity. Then see if she had any reason we shouldn't get divorced.

[erandal]

Well I walked in on mine so confronting him was litteral. I stormed out, went to tell the husband of the girl he was with (a now ex friend of mine) and ended up sleeping with him as revenge. Divorce proceedings started a few days later.

[eterna1drag0n]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. Be the bigger person and just leave. Life is too short to fuck with people about bullshit. Just leave and tell them why, nothing more, nothing less. Then move on with life.

[Asker]

Like I've said numerous times I'm not for being the bigger person. Sorry, not sorry.

[sunflower00]

Ideally I’d tell him I knew and then just dump him.


Realistically…I’d probably end up crying in front of him asking why and how he could do something so hurtful. And then dump him.

[Drumlin2001]

Quick answer is it would be the end of our relationship.
But it's difficult as there's some legel issues around the kids and potentially around my house so may have to bide my time, talk to solicitor and play along for a while.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Short term partner, wish her well, be on my way. Long term partner, make sure she hears the call to my attorney making sure she gets nothing from my estate if I go early.

[Exterminatore]

It would never work. I wouldn’t cheat to start with. I also know I pack plenty of meat. If I were the cheater in this situation I’d be all: “cool, see ya.” Most especially because I already have a side chick. 1 girl is enough trouble for anyone.

[DermalPunch]

Laugh. Then kick him to the curb. Then privately suffer and ear junk food and watch documentaries.

[NotTacocaT6969]

I’d just pack up my shit and leave without saying a word and would never speak to him again.

[In_Trance]

Done

[Anonymous]

nice, you're clever.

I caught my partner cheating once but couldn't do what you said.

[Asker]

God forbid it happens to you a second time but now you know what to do 😇 leave them with something that will hurt them forever

[Opinion Owner]

actually it won't happen because I now accept it 😅, so it's kinda happens with me knowing about it.

[Asker]

That's bad
Don't be a cuck/doorstep.. you're better than that 😂

[Reem12345reem]

telling him that you know is a waste of time he doesn't care anyway so I would just dump him

[WhitneySnow]

Now that’s evil lol! But nah. I’d just break up with him.

[Billlewis]

I'd probably bring her flowers the next day.

[EmmaMary]

This situation would result in divorce papers being immediately drawn up and issued.

[LiamJHayden]

Pointless. He's already banging someone else so probably won't care all that much. It is better to just end it and find someone worthy of your attention.

[Simslover92]

I'd Lorena Bobbitt his ass... jk I'm not that crazy. I would just leave.