Boyfriend keep cheating?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend keep cheating give him chance after chance he still do it and I am
Mentally drained out I know i deserve better and I need to heal my heart but it’s hard been together for 4 years about to be 5 years I don’t know anymore

[_Maya_]

Yeah so you are just reinforcing that if he cheats you will take him back. He's not going to change and keep doing it. You need to break up. Not easy I get that but the mental toll is already too much from what you say. It isn't going to get better. He's going to keep treating you the same and cheating. Cheaters never change. You do deserve better. Hope you make the right choice.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for that advice

[_Maya_]

Hope things work out for you!

[Asker]

Just find out he talking to somebody else told him I am leaving

[_Maya_]

Good for you! Right decision and you'll be better off.

[Anonymous]

Your an idiot for staying and constantly giving him chance after chance. No wonder why he keeps cheating because he knows your arse won't leave him and won't do anything about it. Sorry to be a bitch

[Asker]

I am trying to get advice I apply for apartment to move out I am just nervous about being a lone with a child

[Opinion Owner]

Being alone with a child is not as scary as you think. I am doing it right now. I didn't mean to be a bitch. I've been cheated on myself, so I do understand about giving the man you love a second chance, but to give them multiple chances. Staying is basically saying to them I have no self respect and it's okay for me to chest because she won't leave me.

[Asker]

You right

[Nikki1989]

Cheaters never change. Dump him and move on. It is not worth the stress.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Flower7]

Obviously, you need to stop dating him. Yes, it’s been 4 years, but it’s better to have wasted 4 years than wasting 5, 6, or more.