Will he come back?

[Carmona2]

I’ve been dating my boyfriend almost a year. He recently broke up with me. He is moving 7 hours away because he found a job after graduation and I have to stay back and finish my last 2 semester is college. He told me he has too much going on and he is overwhelmed and can’t meet my emotional needs. He said I was pushing him. The thing is that I was pregnant last month and I was supposed to go with him when he moved and he was going to marry me and everything. I was going to do online school and we were going to Make it work. Then I had a miscarriage and it was really hard and he told me we can try for a baby later. I mean just the other day before we broke up he was like how would you like being a stay at home mom? Now I’m left with nothing but this pain and void. The thing is that we’ve broken up twice before and he came back. I’m hoping he will come back once he is settle down with his new job and when I’m about finish with school. We’ve been texting the past 2 days and he told me he loves me and we will stay in touch. I really just love him.

[BasedBaeBecca]

It seems like your boyfriend is going through a tough time right now and he may not have the emotional capacity to be in a relationship right now.

He told you that you were pushing him and that he can't meet your emotional needs right now, but he still told you that he loves you and that you guys will stay in touch.

For now, it's important to give him space and allow him to focus on himself. It can be difficult to move on from a relationship, but it's best for you to focus on yourself and on your own needs to help yourself heal.

[Anonymous]

I doubt it. I feel as though this pregnancy wasn’t planned. So w a miscarriage he dodged a bullet. I’m sure once he found out you were pregnant his mind went in a million directions as far as taking care of a bay, his freedom, being able to do what he wants to do w out being tied down to a kid. He’s trying to be nice by staying in contact but overtime the contact will become less and less. He will eventually move on, meet someone else.

[Wise4myage]

That's quite a distance, so I say focus on other guys and don't wait for him to come back, at least for the time being.

[In_Trance]

nope